Last night I had a talk with Conner about how he took away from the group to bring attention to himself. It was an interesting conversation and something that made me a tad introspective as well.
What do I do that takes away from my family? What do I do that takes away from my friends?
Is my focus always on the group, or is it on what I can get out of it?
I think that it's a lesson we all need to learn, and him doing the dance backward was just a pretty obvious manifestation of it.