Lately I've been having to turn some people down. I didn't think our realtor was making our interests his #1 priority so I found a new one, same with our loan guy and we've had to tell some movers we've chosen someone else.
And I'm awful at it.
And apparently not good at it.
So, I sent out a message just saying we were taking a break from the home purchasing after this last stint and we'd be concentrating on saying goodbye and just moving, which we were. We just happened to find a house in the meantime with a competent realtor.
Realtor #1 keeps emailing me, daily, to see if there's anything he can do to help.
I had a conversation with him yesterday just him asking if we needed help with our rental and saying to call him and he'd like to help us out. I ended it "we'll see" which seemed kind of like, "maybe never." But maybe I wasn't firm at it.
I really don't want to get into why I thought he wasn't right for us, because I'm sure he does business his own way and that seems to work for him, it just didn't work for me.
So, do I just come out and say "we're moving on and we're not taking you with us" or do I just halt communications and figure he gets the picture?
I hate disappointing people, because we've had enough disappointment to fill a barrel lately but when some thing's not working -- it's not working.