A friend recently linked to a post that I personally found very profound.
It is true that I went door to door during prop 8. I did feel very conflicted at the time, and I still do. I think that the feelings of homosexuality are very real.
This man so eloquently states how amazing his life is. I really appreciate him sharing his thoughts on his blog, they might be helpful to you, or someone you know as well.
Club Unicorn: In which I come out of the closet on our ten year anniversary
I feel the best reality, and the one that allowed me to walk for prop 8, is that families happen when a man and a woman are together (and that isn’t to downplay families that look differently, but the truth of the matter is that in order to have a child you need a part from a man and a part from a woman, and no law is going to change that). I think the most successful families have a mom and a dad (although, there are plenty of exceptions, I personally believe this to be the best “nest” to foster great humans) and I truly feel much more joy in my family then I do in any sexual relationship (although I find that to be quite important as well).
Let me know what you think!
P.S. Also, his blog is hilarious. I think the giggles I have had this morning may get me through 12 hours of work this afternoon…