In this post I’m going to talk about what the Curly Girl method did good for me, what it did wrong, and what I’m doing now. And yes, I normally talk about pregnancy, but I wanted to say that even small parts of our day can feel better, even if the world feels heavy.

What is Good About the Curly Girl Method?

There we a LOT of good things I learned from the curly girl method:

I have dry hair. Honestly, it wasn’t addressed when I was growing up. It’s just good to know that curly hair tends to be drier.

Condition & Brush Through in the Shower — this has been a game changer for me. For a long time I was using a wide-toothed comb, but I’ve found better options lately….

The effects of sulfates & silicones — I feel like these were exaggerated, but there are definitely effects from each of them.

What Didn’t Help Me with the Curly Girl Method.

Sulfates Bad: I was walking around with a dirty, itchy scalp because I thought I was NEVER supposed to wash my hair, and if I ever did I should use a sulfate-free conditioner. I itched for YEARS because of this… Unhelpful.

Heavy Conditioners: I thought I needed the heaviest of conditioners for my dry hair. I looked for ones that were super thick and creamy.

The problem is I have very fine, thin hair — maybe I needed something different…

Anti-Drugstore: I felt like curly girl pushed us towards more expensive products that are sold in salons or higher-end shops, but boy oh boy I’ve found some drugstore products I really, really love. That’s been a big benefit to watching Abbey Young. I’d tried Deva Curl, CurlSmith, Tre Luxe and Inahsi<< All of which were more expensive and honestly, aren’t working as well as what I have now. Not to knock them, but I think we just have no idea how little price point really means as far as if something is quality or not.

My Hair

I think it’s really important to know my hair and what issues I’m facing.

• My Curls are probably 3C. They’re pretty coily — especially when I take care of them well. My hair got curlier after I had kids, but I’ve always had curly hair
• I am starting to go grey, but it’s only a few strands (knocking on all the wood). I don’t plan to color them out, go grey gracefully (even if I’m screaming inside)
• My hair is VERY fine — you hardly feel it between your fingers when you just have a strand. This means the actual hairs are very thin.
• My hair is very thin — I’ve never had a lot of hair (people think I do because of the curls) but it is also getting thinner with age {insert me crying quietly in a corner). This means I have less hairs on my head than the average gal.

It’s important that I have a routine that:

• Preserves the # of hairs I have — I’d prefer it to get LESS thin — or, at least stay how it is.
• Is fast — I don’t like to spend a lot of time on it (full disclosure). I also REALLY hate the feeling of hair on my hands, so there’s that.
• Doesn’t break the bank. I feel like there are better things to spend my money on than expensive brands, but I am willing to spend if it will preserve the strands.
• Itches less. Please.

What I Learned from Abbey Yung

In case you have no idea who Abbey Young is…. I found her on Youtube after trying K-18 and wanting tips (more on that, stay tuned). Abbey has hair the complete opposite of mine, it’s bleached, and she straightens it several times a week. My hair is natural, curly and only gets about 5 minutes of heat/week (if that). However, she speaks a lot to scalp & hair care, and that is true no matter what our hair is like. She is a Trichologist, and I have no idea what that is, but I think it has to do with hair/scalp health.

Abbey Taught Me:

1. Good hair care comes at many price points (she often loves drugstore as much as high end and isn’t afraid to share that)
2. Our scalps need to be clean for our hair to grow well & look good — and that often means sulfates
3. There’s lots of conditioners that work well, you can try a few lighter ones to see if you like them!

I will say that after we’ve used a leave-in I tend to diverge from Abbey as I still need products that provide me with hold. She doesn’t talk about that beyond hair spray.

But, now I want to share what I’m using now and I’m a big fan of:

What I’m Using Now

I’d like to mention I’d LOVE to use the images in this post, but I guess companies can get mad at you for posting their images of their product… so, hopefully the brand names and links will be enough for you guys.

Shampoo

This has been the BIG change. First off, I’m washing weekly — where I used to use a very LIGHT wash once a month. Some weeks I even wash twice a week…. a real curly rebel.

First off — I’m a huge fan of Pantene Volumizing shampoo. I was honestly super nervous because this one is FULL of sulfates and lots of foam when you use it — but it was the first time my scalp was finally chilling out and wasn’t itching.

You can find it on Amazon (but I prefer the cheaper bottle you can get at Walmart or your local drugstore/supermarket)

And yes, it is pretty drying — but when I back it up with a good conditioner it helps.

ALSO, because my hair is so fine and thin getting all the gunk off of it that I put on really helps it look better overall. Something I didn’t expect. So, better scalp health & better hair.

I finally just had to jump in a buy a few products, even though I was nervous to try new things. The good news is a lot of these are pretty inexpensive. I’d recommend just buying as small a bottles as you can find of what appeals to you.

I also like the Garnier Pure Clean. It’s not quite as cleansing but still does a good job.

Honestly, I say get a cheap, small bottle (you may be shocked at the low price point) — see what you think of it. It’s also available at Walmart.

Honestly, as I’m typing this I’m thinking I should do a really good cleansing shampoo weekly, and then some other shampoo or Co-Wash (less of a fan of co-washes lately too, which is a change for me) the other day/week.

Which brings me to a system I was SHOCKED I liked so much — and that is Dove. Oh man guys — HUGE fan here.

The Dove Bond Strength Line. Honestly, my hair looks SO good when I wash with this. It’s also available at Walmart. I was just using the shampoo — but stay tuned, I’ve tried some similar conditioner.

I also want to try the Dove Intensive Repair shampoo (cheaper/smaller at Walmart) — I’m just not sure it’s worth it to own both of those (so when bond strength is empty I’ll try that).

I should say I did try the Dove Itch Relief and also the Moisture shampoo — not wild fans of either (and the itch relief didn’t seem to help my itchy scalp).

Common things I’m seeing:

1. My scalp needs CLEANSING which often means a lathery-sulfate (and also using good conditioner aftrewards)
2. I think I need protein — I don’t color, or use much heat but I think my hair is protein thirsty. Who knew? This could come from me brushing out snarls, or just how it snarls in general, plus living in Arizona with our high UV index.

Conditioner

Ok, I started this whole journey out when my stylist recommended some K18 for my hair that was falling out about 6’ish months after my appendix ruptured and I almost died.

It’s wildly expensive. However, both myself and my daughter needed some hair repair, so I thought it would be worth the investment. I mean, how can you brand be Pulling Curls when you have no hair?

I haven’t notice HUGE differences. I do think less is falling out. However, I think it was just a post-septic hair shedding at the time that I started it.

I now use K18 once a month after that Pantene Volumizing shampoo. I like it, my hair often looks great that week! I don’t know that I’ll re-purchase when this container is gone.

Things I’ve learned about K18 — I only use 1.5 pumps of it, and I lather it up in my hands really well before applying it — it’s easily wasted, so be sure to read the directions to help it get in as much of your hair as you can.

However, it’s not an “everyday” conditioner…. Even K18 says that.

For a REALLY long time I’ve used the Kirkland conditioner from Costco. It’s thick and I felt like that’s what I needed for my dry hair. But, K-18 isn’t thick, I wasn’t using another conditioner and my hair looked great. So, I started to wonder if some lighter conditioners might be nice?

I had heard from Abbey that CR100 was great — sort of the poor man’s K18 for protein and strength building. I got some. I like it, I don’t want to marry it — but I think I’ll keep using it monthly. It’s about 1/10 of the price — but you also use a lot more of it.

There are also a few other good protein systems like Epres I may try after my K18 is gone. We’ll see. But for now I’m trying to keep my number of products to a minimum.

I got the Dove Intensive Repair conditioner and I’m a fan (it’s cheaper at Walmart). I use it with the Bond strength shampoo. I like it a lot. I think they’re a good pairing. It’s not super heavy, and you just leave it in for a minute. I like that.

Just got this L’Oreal Elvive Glossing Conditioner — and I’m a fan. Abbey really made me think about my hair, and what it needs. It’s very fine, it’s thin and dry. This one is a lighter conditioner and I really liked it. Was my hair glossier? I have no idea. But I liked it. I feel like I got it cheaper in the store at Walmart, so check there or your grocery store too!

Themes I’m seeing:

1. When I use a sulfate shampoo it’s very important I condition well. It makes up for it — I don’t have to cut out sulfates, I just have to condition (which I was doing anyway)
2. That doesn’t mean the conditioner needs to be thick — mostly just adequte slip to brush through it in the shower
3. Thinner conditioners help my hair not be weighed down.

My hair actually looks “lighter” — I think, because I was using such HEAVY conditioners for so long. Or, it’s because I’m going grey, but let’s not talk about that… {sobs quietly}

Brushes

With this I started to look at the brushes I was using.

I only brush my hair when it is both wet, and has conditioner in it.

Prior to this I was using a wide toothed comb, which is fine — but I was thinking there was something better. I felt like I just had to pull on that to get snarls out….

So I got the tangle teaser, which I really like. For Christmas my husband got me a UnBrush. I like both of them. I think the UnBrush is a bit easier on tangled hair and it’s what I’m using in the shower currently.

Honestly, prior to this I’d just try to brush out the thing from root to tip, but I’ve started ear lobes down, and then tops of ears down, then crown down trying to work through tangles moving up my scalp. It’s lead to a lot less hair loss in the shower.

I also have a Denman brush, It didn’t work for me. It’s just to harsh, too many bristles (even if I remove some). I was trying to use it to clump my curls. I’d rather use the tangle teaser, I think it’s easier on my hair.

I also have one similar to this with the ridges. It does alright — I like it to create clumps when I’ve put product in before I dry, but I can’t use it to distribute product out of the shower. I’ve been using that tangle teaser or Unbrush to do that instead.

Leave-Ins

Abbey reminded me I need to be putting in something for when I do heat style.

Honestly, I haven’t found much that I like for this. I currently have the L’Oreal 21 in one spray. It’s fine. I don’t notice a big difference when I use it. But, if I’m heat styling I use a heat protectant. Just haven’t found one I love (I do like the Trader Joe’s one….)

But, I do want to give a couple of brands that I REALLY like for Curly Products.

Hairitage has been amazing. I love their Leave In Conditioner and Curl Cream. I use those two, plus a heavy gel (sometimes this one from Aussie) and I’ve had good luck. I just don’t think the curl cream has enough hold to just use that, and my hair feels a bit dry if I don’t use a little conditioner too.

Not Your Mother’s is also my new go-to. I like their curl cream (I get it at Walmart) and I also like the #3 gel, but I think the #4 (that refers to how much hold) lets my wash last a bit longer.

Honestly, I’m still on the look out for drugstore gel I really like. I do like this one, but it’s a bit on the pricier side.

A few trends I’m noticing:

1. I’m a drugstore girl — I’ve tried other brands of leave ins and gels and I haven’t been ANY more satisfied (possibly less satisfied).
2. If I do the was and conditioning in the shower right, I have less to worry about outside the shower. Just a little conditioner, maybe some curl cream and DEFINITELY some gel (which I need to brush through my hair to make sure it goes to all of them).

I also blow dry with a diffuser every other wash, as I’d like to keep my hair as healthy as I can.

So, that’s what I’m doing. If you’re a curly girl and you have a product you love — tell me in the comments. Things keep changing which makes it really hard to find something you like and stick with it.

That being said, I think it’s good to not use the same thing every time, but “speak” with your hair to see what it needs. Now that I sound crazy. I guess I’ll it here.

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Links for you:

The Workout Witch: https://theworkoutwitch.com/

Timestamps:

00:00 Surprise parenting led to seeking somatic exercise.
04:45 Key takeaways: Calories matter, add fiber, beans.
07:14 Preventing osteoporosis through strength and mobility exercises.
10:22 Kelly Clarkson shares honest weight loss journey.

Keypoints:

Sure! Here’s the summary without the numbers:

• Introduction to the Episode:
• Hilary Erickson announces the focus on her personal weight loss journey and the episode aim to help keep things simple.
• Initial Struggles:
• Hilary describes experiencing pain, fatigue, and discomfort, prompting her to consider a focus on her health as her youngest child started high school.
• The Workout Witch:
• She discovered ‘The Workout Witch’ on social media who claimed to heal various pains through somatic exercises. Remarkably, Hilary’s hip pain was alleviated after following the exercises and addressing her jaw tension.
• Health Coach Involvement:
• Hilary engaged a health coach for focused guidance. This coach had a background in dietetics and helped Hilary with diet and nutrition strategies.
• Key Dietary Insights:
• Emphasis on three dietary pillars from the health coach: Protein intake, fiber consumption, and calorie regulation.
• Introduction to Semaglutide:
• Hilary began using semaglutide around Christmas, noting some side effects and the importance of gradual dose increases.
• Exercise Routine:
• Hilary implemented weight-bearing exercises to prevent osteoporosis, aiming for short, consistent sessions throughout the week.
• Weight Loss and Plateaus:
• Over the months, Hilary lost approximately 12 pounds but experienced plateau phases. Emphasis on protein, fiber, and calorie counting continued despite slow progress.
• Food Habits Changes:
• She noted that semaglutide reduced food chatter in her mind and made her cautious about overeating, particularly at restaurants.
• Overall Takeaway:
• Hilary is happy to have reduced pain and improved functionality, prioritizes sustainable small steps in her weight loss journey, and aims to eventually stop using semaglutide while maintaining her progress.

Producer: Drew Erickson

Transcript

[00:00:00.630] – Hilary Erickson

Hey, guys. Welcome back to the Pulling Curls podcast. Today on episode 237, we are talking about my weight loss journey. Let’s untangle it.

[00:00:10.690] – Hilary Erickson

Hi, I’m Hilary, a serial overcomplicator. I’m also a nurse, mom to three, and the curly head behind Pulling Curls and the pregnancy nurse. This podcast aims to help us stop overcomplicating things and remember how much easier it is to keep things simple. Let’s smooth out those snarls with Pregnancy and Parenting Untangled, the Pulling Curls Podcast.

[00:00:38.750] – Hilary Erickson

Okay, last fall, I found myself just in pain, tired, fatigued. No matter what I did, I just was miserable. And my youngest was starting high school. That’s an era where they have a little bit more autonomy. I knew that I wasn’t going to be as important in her life as friends and extracurriculars.

[00:00:56.290] – Hilary Erickson

And I just knew I would probably have some extra time in my life, right? I will say there are times in season in parenting, and I’m getting to that season where parenting doesn’t take as much of my time. Parenting takes you by surprise because all of a sudden a kid will need you a lot in time that you thought you would have otherwise.

[00:01:15.710] – Hilary Erickson

But I knew that I would have some extra time in my life, and I really wanted to start making a difference in my own health. So the first thing I did, I had seen her on social media. Her name is the Workout Witch, and she just said that she would be to heal your back, your pelvis, jaw, all these different types of pain through somatic exercises. And at the time, my pelvis was just really hurting, the right side of my pelvis, right in front of my hipbone.

[00:01:42.200] – Hilary Erickson

I was trying every stretch. I tried mobility, And I honestly felt like mobility had taken my plantar fasciitis away, but had just moved it on my pelvis to that hipbone, and I could not figure out how to heal it. So I was like, you know what? Let’s try this workout, which I really enjoyed her. And during the jaw session, I realized that I was chewing my tongue really frequently.

[00:02:07.920] – Hilary Erickson

And I know you’re going to be like, Hilary, you’re insane. Just go with me. And I was like, okay, I’m going to stop doing that because she was talking a lot about jaw tension. And I actually set up this thing in my phone where every 20 minutes it would remind me, don’t chew on your tongue. And I had that on my phone for a month. We were going on vacation, and my husband was like, is that still going to be on your phone when we go on vacation? And it wasn’t. It only took a little while, and I stopped chewing on my tongue. And just in general, a jaw tightness was what I was feeling. And after I stopped doing it, that hip pain went away entirely, which she does seem like a witch.

[00:02:44.080] – Hilary Erickson

And she said that’s how she got the name her friends. She would show her friends exercises to help with their problems, and they would be like, You are a witch. And it totally took it away. So I’m a big believer in the somatic exercises. I like that lady. It was a one-time purchase, which I’m a big fan of.

[00:02:58.240] – Hilary Erickson

So after I I was done with the Workout Witch, which I still wasn’t losing weight. One of her claims is that you’ll drop weight. Did not happen for me. And I decided to get a health coach. So I had seen a gal online. She had actually reached out to me first asking to partner with me.

[00:03:15.540] – Hilary Erickson

She wasn’t a great fit for that type of thing because I already have a nutritionist that I love for pregnancy. But later I was following her and I just liked the vibe that she had. And so I signed up with her to be my health coach. So she’s a gal who has her bachelor’s in dietetics. She is now on her way to getting her master’s. You have to have a master’s degree before you’re a dietitian, but she knew about diet quite a bit.

[00:03:38.260] – Hilary Erickson

That’s why she was a health coach, not like a dietitian. Side note, I had worked with a dietitian with my health share a few years prior to that and didn’t see much luck. So I wasn’t sure that a dietitian was going to help me anymore. And honestly, I’m not a huge fan of the coaching business model at all. And I was wondering what on earth she could provide me that I couldn’t just provide myself. Now, I will say that I’m an extremely motivated person. Once I say I’m going to do X, Y, Z, that ends up happening.

[00:04:06.190] – Hilary Erickson

But I tend to get caught up in which path am I even supposed to follow. And so sometimes I’ll change direction or too early to tell if something’s working or something like that. And so I found that this health coach ultimately helped me to just stay focused. And I boiled it down to three pillars. So that I needed to focus on protein, and then I also needed to remember about fiber, and then I also needed to remember that calories matter, right? Because you see so many people that are like, eat a high protein diet, and then they’re just like having steak every day.

[00:04:42.630] – Hilary Erickson

And for me, that is not a way to lose weight. You have to remember that the calories matter and you have to add the fiber in, right? Which a lot of things that are high in protein, except for beans and lentils, who doesn’t love a bean and a lentil now and then, are not high in fiber. So adding beans into the diet seemed to fit both of those bills.

[00:05:02.000] – Hilary Erickson

Those are just the three things that ultimately I took out of my health coach journey with her. So I was working with her for, I think, three to four months and had a great experience. She still touches base with me online, and I really appreciate that. But it just helped get my head on straight instead of just always trying the newfangled thing in weight loss. Because you and I know that weight loss is one of those things that we’ll listen to because a lot of people want to lose weight.

[00:05:29.500] – Hilary Erickson

In fact, there is a blogging lady that I followed at the beginning of my blogging journey who had a lot of good things to say about blogging at a reasonable price point. And then she made a coaching thing that was incredibly expensive and just continued to make it more and more and more expensive.

[00:05:46.260] – Hilary Erickson

And then that dried up. There weren’t bloggers who wanted to follow her there. And so what does she switch to? Dieting. She’s not a dietitian. She has no experience. She’s just telling people to follow the keto diet. And I’m like, Isn’t that the way? We just know that people want to do this thing, and so we will charge huge amounts of money to tell you silly things. And so that’s what a health coach did for me. It was a short period of time, and the principles have remained the same for me.

[00:06:14.410] – Hilary Erickson

I did start Semaglutide right before Christmas. I am using a compound pharmacy to get my Semaglutide. It ends up being about 125 a month, I think-ish. It really hasn’t been bad most of the time, but I did try and increase my dose a while ago, and I was like, exercise in the restroom. So I backed it off a little bit, and I’m just slowly increasing it by a unit every week. My doctor is really cool about things. He doesn’t feel like I have to follow the… Because usually it goes like a 5, 10, 15 jump. Right now, I’m at 12.

[00:06:47.310] – Hilary Erickson

This Thursday, I’ll give myself 13 just to see if it can help me lose weight. Ultimately, I am… Well, we’ll get to that. Don’t worry. I don’t want to spoil it, how I’m just a skeleton now. Just kidding. And the other thing that really ultimately became important in this journey was weight-bearing exercises.

[00:07:06.810] – Hilary Erickson

So my mom has had an issue with broken bones, and her bones are just real thin and fragile. And I have made a goal to not let that be me because I’ve ultimately seen that it can be really problematic as you age. So I wanted to prevent osteoporosis, especially before I go into menopause. I’m 48 right now when I’m recording this, and bone growth was something that I really wanted to work on. And studies show that the best thing you can do for bone growth is weight exercises, so strength training.

[00:07:37.970] – Hilary Erickson

And they say you really don’t have to do a ton of it a week. Ten minutes, three times a week is what I focus on. I do some strength training, and then I really work on mobility and functional exercises so that I retain those things. One of my least favorite, but probably best ones, is where you’re kneeling on the ground and then you stand up, and then you get back down, and you kneel, and you stand back up.

[00:07:57.070] – Hilary Erickson

I hate that exercise, but they say that that is one of your best ones to keep your function around. So ultimately, I have lost, since Christmas, maybe 12 pounds. So we’re about six months out when I’m recording this from Christmas. I’ve lost about 12 pounds.

[00:08:16.420] – Hilary Erickson

I mean, I just don’t think that’s anything to write home about. That’s like two pounds a month. I am currently and have been stuck at the last month at a one to two pound variance. Part of me is like, Is it something mental? I did track calories for a week. It seemed to help, but I still have not gotten below. I want that second number to change, and I haven’t had that change yet.

[00:08:38.140] – Hilary Erickson

But I’m going to really just keep trying to focus on protein is important, so is fiber and calories matter, because I think when I do those things, the weight should come off, especially with the semaglutide. In case you were wondering, what have I seen otherwise besides negative side effects, I do feel like my food chatter in my brain is very minimal. I am extra cautious about eating extra because that’s when you get sick.

[00:09:03.220] – Hilary Erickson

So I really listen to that alarm in my head that is like, Okay, you’re full, so that I stop eating, especially at restaurants, because I don’t know what types of fats and things they’re cooking with. So fries, I try not to order any. I just have a couple off of my husband or kids plate, which I’m sure they’re a huge fan of. But you’re also aiming to just not get sick, because if you eat too much on the semi-glutide, you immediately get sick, and it’s not fun for anyone.

[00:09:27.210] – Hilary Erickson

Those are the things I’m going to keep doing moving forward. Focusing on protein, fiber matters too, so do calories, right? I’m going to keep doing the semi-glutide. My goal was to do it for the year and just see how I’m doing. It is a fair amount of money each month, so I don’t want to keep doing it if I’m not losing weight, but I’m not gaining weight, so that seems to be a win. And then keep doing the strength training exercises.

[00:09:51.190] – Hilary Erickson

I’m hesitant to increase my exercise too much because I feel like when I exercise more, I gain weight. Which it could be that I’m gaining muscle, they always say, but I don’t feel like my pants or anything is fitting looser or anything like that. So I’m just trying to keep it those 10 minutes of strength. And then I add cardio walking, pickleball. We love pickleball at my house. Of course, right now it’s summer in Arizona, so I try not to go outside in any form, but I’m just trying to keep moving a little bit more than I used to.

[00:10:22.400] – Hilary Erickson

So that is my weight loss journey. There’s nothing magical. I’m not the Kelly Clarkson who comes back for the next season and is stick thin. That has not been my experience. Would I like it to be? I mean, yes, in my head, I would like it to be, but I also know that small steps are ones that are easier to not roll back on, right? Because I don’t want to keep taking the semi-glutide for the rest of my life. I would like to go off of it at some point and hopefully maintain the weight loss that I found.

[00:10:49.330] – Hilary Erickson

But ultimately, I’m most happy that my body just isn’t hurting anymore. I was having so much pain with my hip and things like that, that it was just difficult to be my person. And so I’m really I’m glad that those are feeling better.

[00:11:01.210] – Hilary Erickson

I’m able to move better, move more. We go to Disneyland and stuff like that, and I’m not just dying. I mean, I’m sort of dying. It’s Disneyland. But in normal physical activities, I’m not dying. I feel fine. So that is my weight loss journey. If you guys have any questions, come find us over on Instagram. We’ll have a post for this episode.

[00:11:19.650] – Hilary Erickson

Stay tuned. We are talking about Aspirin During Pregnancy on our next episode. And the week after that, I am talking about having more fun at home. So stay tuned.

[00:11:28.950] – Hilary Erickson

Thanks for joining us on the Pulling Curls Podcast today. If you liked today’s episode, please consider reviewing, sharing, subscribing. It really helps our podcast grow. Thank you.

Keywords:

weight loss journey, Pulling Curls podcast, Hilary Erickson, overcomplicating things, serial overcomplicator, pregnancy and parenting, weight loss, fatigue, health coach, somatic exercises, workout witch, pelvis pain, fiber intake, protein intake, calories matter, dietetics, dietitian, semaglutide, strength training, osteoporosis prevention, bone growth, mobility exercises, functional exercises, weight bearing exercises, food chatter, nutritionist, resting, dieting myths, keto diet, weight management, health improvement

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FYI, this post is a 2024 update from my post on Alternatives to Color Street — if you’re looking for more information on how to put them on and a few other companies, check that post out!

Dashing Divas

I think these are my overall favorite. They’re available at big box stores if you want to check them out in person, or there are a lot online as well:

Check-out Pricing on Walmart.

Check-out Pricing on Amazon.

Pro’s of Dashing Divas:

These last forever — serious staying power!

They come in a variety of colors/patterns

Con’s of Dashing Divas

They sort of feel “rubbery” — I feel them sort of “snagging” items on the top part of my nail because of the texture.

They are tough on your nails when you take them off, because they hold so well! I basically have to pry them off….

Other Nail Strip Options:

These Ohora ones look good — but they do require a nail lamp.

The Sally Hansen nail strips have been around a long time, come in lots of different patterns and get good reviews. They are also available at Walmart.

Amazon is now carrying giant packs with LOTS of options. Reviews seem mixed, but when you have a ton of them, they may not be as hard on your nails and you can change it up frequently! They have some pretty glitter options too!

These ones seem to have better reviews overall.

Be sure to check out the options in my post on Color Street Alternatives for more options too!

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Yup, today we’re talking hair, and not the hair on your head.   Hopefully, you’re only reading this post if you’re wanting to hear about it — but, a lot of people have his question — so let’s get started!

So, if you’re wondering why on EARTH you should take my advice (and you should always wonder that)…

Hi, I’m Hilary I’m the curly head here around Pulling Curls, but a lot of people know me as The Pregnancy Nurse. I have 20 years of labor and delivery experience, and I’ve been a nurse since 1997. I can’t tell you HOW MANY TIMES I HAVE BEEN ASKED THIS QUESTION — usually via text or whispered at dinner. And, since I’ve seen thousands of legs (and other parts) at birth I’m an expert on this.

I bet you found yourself wishing shaving was easier (like it was pre-baby). And maybe you’re wishing a LOT of pregnancy could be easier, but I’m here to say I have made at least ONE part of pregnancy easier — and that’s getting prepared. If shaving is getting tricky now is the PERFECT time to join me in The Online Prenatal Class for Couples where we get BOTH of you prepared in just a few hours. The real beauty is you could shave your legs while you watch it in the privacy of your own home!

Ok, let’s get down to the nitty-gritty:

Shaving While Pregnant

We’re going to talk about ALL The facets of shaving any unwanted hair on any parts of your body while pregnant, and at the end, I’ll give the honest opinion of your health providers when you’re “baring it all” down under, and if we care if you have pubic hair.

If there’s a particular subject you’re interested in choose it here:

I should say that a LOT of this varies depending on how far along you are. You can easily do things in your first trimester, that won’t be as easy later on. So, much of this is for ladies a bit further into pregnancy.

How to Shave Your Pubic Area While Pregnant

It is completely safe to shave while you’re pregnant.  But, pregnancy does pose some issues with shaving (especially your “private area”):

Problems with shaving your bikini area during pregnancy:

Your pubic area has extra blood flow from being pregnant and the pressure that pregnancy puts on that area (which is why people love these).  Which means:

• You may bleed more if you nick and it may take longer to heal.
• It may hurt more when you use a procedure – like waxing, epilating, etc.
• You may react differently (creating skin irritation) because of all this — PLUS the hormones.
• Your hair may grow faster, or different because of those lovely hormones!

So, your regular “routine” may not work when you’re pregnant.

Also, as you head into the end of pregnancy things may get a bit damp down there {here’s my post on discharge during pregnancy}.

TRUTH: There is absolutely nothing wrong with going au natural during your pregnancy.

Pro tip: Talk with your provider on this subject if you have any complications with your pregnancy. They may have things they don’t want you doing for specific reasons just for you! For instance, any infections will change how you take care of things “down there”.

FYI, I do have a podcast on this subject:

and a video…. (I’m nothing but thorough)

Pubic hair growing during pregnancy

There is a medical reason why your hair seems different.

Pubic hair growth, as well as the hair itself, may change during pregnancy.  All of that is normal.  You probably notice something similar on your head as well.  After the hormones are gone your hair will likely go back to normal. Hair follicles are affected by hormones (both up top and down below).

Also, the hair growth cycle will change (and the hairs may change with it).

And yes, it’s not just the hair that feels different.

Feeling like you’re missing a lot with what your body does in pregnancy & labor — grab my insider tips here:

How to shave your private parts during pregnancy

When I get the question, if you plan to shave — I recommend the this razor.  Mostly because it is COVERED by some sort of soap/gel/ shaving cream that makes it REALLY hard to nick yourself or have ingrown hairs, etc. Make sure you’re using a new blade, as you’re more likely to nick with older blades.

Whatever you use, make sure to use plenty of foam/soap or whatever you use to make it more gentle.

Another option is to use electric shavers. Your chance of getting cut is less (but it doesn’t shave as close).

Pregnancy mirror for shaving

If you want a bit more vision — something like this might be helpful to see it all.  Although, make sure the lock on your bathroom door works if you have kids at home.  #awkward.

There are also razor extenders to lend a helping hand.

And while we’re talking toiletries — grab my hospital packing list here:

Laser Hair Removal During Pregnancy

There are no long term studies as to if this could affect the baby, so most providers recommend NOT doing this during your pregnancy, but maybe call your local center (if you’ve done it before — pregnancy is NOT a time to start this, because of all the reasons I previously mentioned) and see what they think.

I have a whole post on laser hair removal during pregnancy on my sister site.

I also a few other articles on things you should/shouldn’t do:

• When Should I Start Drinking Raspberry Leaf Tea?
• Can Curb Walking Induce Labor?
• When To Start Eating Dates During Pregnancy?
• Sleeping Positions To Induce Labor: Best Positions To Dilate

Why you shouldn’t shave pubic hair while pregnant

I’ve seen some current research saying it increases infection rates, but I haven’t heard anything about asking people NOT to shave. However you do it, make sure that you wash the area afterwards with your regular body soap (antibacterial soap should be saved for hospital use or a pre-surgical prep).

Something else to think about:

God gave women pubic hair for a reason.  Part of the reason is that it keeps “bad stuff” out of your urethra (otherwise known as your pee hole).

If you get frequent uti’s (also called bladder infections or urinary tract infections), I would 100% recommend NOT shaving during pregnancy, maybe that’s part of your problem?

This all being said, there are a lot of home hair removal methods that will likely be fine.

Shaving legs while pregnant

I still love that intuition razor for legs while pregnant.  As your belly grows, you’ll have less vision of everything below your baby bump, so safety should be your #1.  Something like this may extend your reach (I just think it might be easier to cut yourself with that).

Also, husbands or partners can be great to shave legs, I have heard a lot of women who use that route.

Honestly, the more you can get your husband involved, the better — which is why I created this.

Shaving your face while pregnant

This is ONE area it’s not harder to reach. However, you may react differently than you have in the past, so be aware of that if you are wanting to get rid of facial hair.

Shaving stomach while pregnant

I guess this gets googled.  I haven’t seen it.  You may grow more hair on your belly when you’re pregnant, and that’s normal.  I wouldn’t shave it though — I think it will just make it feel rougher. If you get a particularly long one, you could always use tweezers to pluck it.

Hair growth should go back to normal after the baby.

Here’s a few other posts on personal care during pregnancy:

• I’m So Nervous About Birth – What Do I Do?
• What Does Round Ligament Pain Feel Like
• Should You Buy Your Own Fetal Doppler?
• When Should I Start Using A Birthing Ball?
• Can A Hot Bath Induce Labor At 39 Weeks?

Hair removal creams during pregnancy

Ok, let’s talk creams.

First off, a cream “down there” makes me nervous and personally, I’ve never tried it.

I do NOT think that pregnancy is a great time to START using something like Nair, or other depilatory creams.

If you’ve been using a hair removal cream before pregnancy I’d just use it with caution.  Just keep in mind what I said before, that your skin may react differently. You have a higher chance of an allergic reaction during pregnancy.

In rare cases this could be REALLY problematic and possibly lead to health complications if the allergic reaction is severe.

Shaving if you’re in preterm labor/bedrest

I wouldn’t put shaving ahead of your baby’s health.  Let it grow, you can take care of it after the baby.

Also, if you were to nick something important “down there”, you may have increased preterm labor problems.  I’d just refrain from it.  But that’s me.

Waxing while pregnant

A lot of women still get a Brazilian wax while they’re pregnant, but I’d call the spa you use to make sure they will do bikini waxes on pregnant women.  Be sure you’re going to a reputable salon that uses clean wax and clean technique.

Waxing before delivery

If you’ve been doing it during pregnancy that’s fine.  I would not wax right before delivery if you haven’t been waxing lately.  It’s just too risky that your body won’t react well and you’ll be in a LOT of pain.

Pregnancy is NOT the first time to go waxing.

If you’re going for a C-section, we will shave the top part of your pubic region hair (just above your bikini line) before surgery.  It’s part of our job and we would MUCH rather do it vs you hurting yourself doing it.

Pro Tips like that (but about ALL of birth, including C-sections) are all over this class.

Shaving after birth

I would give yourself some time to heal a bit after delivery and certainly, don’t shave in the vaginal area until your 6 weeks are up, just like vaginal rest. It would definitely increase your chance of infection before that area is totally healed-up.

Here’s a few other postpartum posts that might interest you too:

• Your Post-Baby Plan: Setting Yourself Up for Success in the Fourth Trimester
• The Postpartum Mindset: Navigating New Parenthood with Dr. Fran
• Breastfeeding Not Working: Transition from breastmilk to formula?
• 10 Things to Have on Hand After Baby is Born for MOM
• Things To NOT Do After You Have Your Baby

Shaving While Breastfeeding

Honestly, I can’t see this as too much of an issue unless it’s nipple hair, but you can always ask a lactation consultant.

Ok, time for the big question… the one every whispers to me…

Should I Shave my Pubic Hair Before Giving Birth?

As you get closer to your due date it is normal to wonder this question. Often around 38 weeks of pregnancy, many women find this question quite pressing.

No, it is 100% up to you. It does NOT MATTER!

{I hope you can hear me screaming that in this text, because I really do mean it}

I want to state this categorically.  There is NO reason to avoid healthcare or seeing a doctor because you aren’t shaved/waxed/clean down there.

A lot of different nationalities/cultures have different feelings on that area of the body and shaving in general. It really is a personal choice.

When I worked in CA very few people shaved their pubic hair.

In Arizona, more do it, but probably not the majority. Mostly just he culture of the area.

And I don’t care.  At all.

The good news is that we also realize that it’s an almost impossible task to do it like you used to!

Sometimes, if the doctor plans to give you an episiotomy, he will cut some of your hair so that it makes for easier/safer sewing up — but it’s not a big deal at all.

I have a slogan I always say — “You’ve seen one vagina, you’ve seen them all” — and frankly, it’s pretty true. They all look pretty similar and as soon as I leave the room I basically forget what it looked like because I’ll just be seeing another one in a few minutes.

We really look at vaginas in a very different way than normal people and we mostly just want you comfortable and happy.

But, let’s be honest — there’s likely a WHOLE lot that you’re not feeling confident about when it comes to delivery day. When you’re ready, come join me in The Online Prenatal Class for Couples where we get you prepared in just a few hours!

Shaving During Pregnancy FAQ’s:

Here’s a few other labor posts to help you out:

• 6 Things To Know About Your Fetal Growth Ultrasound
• How To Dilate Faster
• Can You Use a Microwave Heat Pack While Pregnant
• The EASIEST (and best) Labor and Delivery Nurse Gift Ideas!
• 5 Mistakes Families Make Preparing For Delivery

In just three hours you can be prepped and ready to go! And yes, having your mind ready is WAY more important than shaving your lady bits. If you like this kind of open, frank and honest advice — check out the class.

Or, if you’re not quite ready for the full class, don’t forget my free insider tips — It’s your first step towards being your own birth boss.

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I really could itch my scalp all day. I don’t create oil there so I can get a dry scalp easily. I could go WEEKS without washing my hair (except I’d have to cut it off since it’d be so snarled). I had tried T-gel but it didn’t seem to work, now thanks to a combination of things I seem to have it under control.

A healthy scalp shouldn’t itch. Product build-up, hair treatments, dead skin cells, etc can lead to unhealthy scalp conditions. Your hair health can be affected by your scalp issues, hair care products used, etc can all play a part.

In recent years the use of apple cider vinegar (also known as ACV) has been popping up often as a help for many things. A bottle of apple cider vinegar can be used in a lot of ways. From salad dressing to some health benefits and even as a household cleanser there are so many things you can do with ACV.

Apple Cider Vinegar Itchy Scalp Treatment

Itchy Scalp at the nape of your neck

I tend to itch most at the bottom of my scalp and even down onto my neck (sometimes I get dry patches on my neck that look like I have symmetrical hickies — but they’re itchy). I have had a doctor check it out at work, they recommend hydro-cortisone and a thick lotion, which mostly works but I feel like that’s just putting something on top of it, not really fixing whatever my problem is.

I try to rinse my neck well in the shower so that the remaining conditioner isn’t left on there. It also seems to help with the itching.

ACV for your itchy scalp.

I put my own apple cider vinegar hair rinse of pure acv in a small spray bottle and keep it in my shower. When I first rinse my hair I spray it onto my scalp/neck. I use it not as a fine mist, but as a stream at that point. The spray bottle I bought shoots it really well and it gets right onto my scalp. I then rub it around a little and move on to other showering tasks.

I figure the longer it can stay on the better, but I often have kids knocking on my door — you know how it is. I then quickly rinse it and then move on to conditioning (I don’t shampoo).

One of the benefits of apple cider vinegar is that you can use it just a few minutes before washing/conditioning your hair.

Sometimes I dilute it 50/50 with water and also add a few drops of tea tree oil. That really helps. I think it’s probably the best for an itchy scalp.

Essential Oils for Itchy Scalp

I first used Doterra, but the MLM thing bugged me. Now I just get them from Plant Therapy or Eden’s garden on Amazon. I have tried Rocky Mountain Oils, but I got a batch that smelled stale (like the oil went bad)… and a few bottles where the oil was so thick I couldn’t get it to drip out. So, I switched.

Sometimes, It does burn a little, but I don’t mind that as I just hope it’s working. It really helped. I no longer feel like I could itch my scalp for hours on end and I’m not constantly bugged by it.

I do it a couple of times each week, sometimes even when I don’t wash my hair I will spray my neck.

**Be careful of how you lean down after applying the ACV rinse as it can run into your eyes, which I experienced and wouldn’t recommend. Also, be sure you don’t actually spray your eyes. Sometimes some can bounce off the wall into my poor eyeballs. {sad face}

I’ve also started adding a tablespoon of apple cider vinegar to my water daily because I hear it helps keep you healthy. I have no idea, but if it keeps the doctor away, I’m all for it!

I also saw a great youtube video where she uses apple cider directly on her scalp.

Essential Oil Recipe for Itchy Scalp

After my daughter had Lice, I started to look into using tea tree oil more on my hair.

I made a little concoction in a dropper bottle.

• 1/2 bottle of fractionated coconut oil
• 1/4 (of the bottle) tea tree oil (I usually put a bit more tea tree oil than I do lavender) — also known as melaleuca oil
• 1/4 (of the bottle) lavender

**Just eyeball the % of the bottle, this isn’t scientific. 

I just take a full dropper and put drops on my scalp before I shower. Sometimes I remember the night before, or sometimes just before I shower. This is a great way to help eliminate scalp itch.

I massage it into the scalp as much as I can.

**Tea Tree Oil Stinks! So, make sure you get it rinsed out well in the shower.

**Under NO circumstances should you put the oils directly on your scalp/neck. I was super desperate last year and did this. It burned my scalp and then I had a flaking scalp for a while…. make sure you dilute it (as it is in the recipe above)

Related post: Using Vinegar as Fabric Softener

Sulfate-Free Conditioner helps with itchy scalp

I find that when I use a sulfate-free conditioner, it helps my scalp not itch so much.

I am also very careful to make sure I rinse my neck well after I condition. I think that perhaps some of my itchy nape was due to not rising my neck adequately.

I talk all about my current hair routine here.

Apple Cider Vinegar Rinse for Itchy Scalp FAQ’s

Can vinegar kill head fungus? 

Yes, vinegar is a low pH (has antifungal properties) which will kill head fungus and help balance out your own scalp’s ph. 

Can I leave apple cider vinegar on my scalp overnight? 

You can. I am not a fan as it is SO smelly, and honestly, I’m not sure that overnight would be much better than a few minutes, but try it — tell me in the comments if it helps!

Can apple cider vinegar damage your hair? 

Just a few tablespoons of apple cider vinegar should be fine for all hair types. I’m sure if you dipped it long enough and entirely in a vat of apple cider vinegar it might start to strip oils. Used as I mentioned here shouldn’t cause any damage or affect the appearance of your hair.

Does apple cider vinegar make your hair grow? 

If you had a bad enough problem with head fungus or a build up of hair products, it may be impeding your hair from growing — so in that case, yes — but it’s not actually making your hair grow, it’s just creating healthy conditions so hair can thrive! 

Does apple cider vinegar help with hair loss? 

As I mentioned above — it can make your scalp and hair follicles healthier, which can help make your hair less brittle and seem like less hair loss. BUT, if you’re actually losing hair (going bald) due to a genetic trait, I don’t think apple cider vinegar will help with that. 

Does apple cider vinegar kill head lice? 

Not REALLY, no — but in my home remedies for lice post I talk about how it weakens the “glue” that holds the lice to your hair, making it easier to comb them out. Apple vinegar is one of the things we use to help lice! 

How often should I use apple cider vinegar on my hair? 

I use it every couple of weeks. I do not have oily hair or an oily scalp so every couple of weeks is enough for me. If you have sensitive skin start slow and dilute the acv with water.

Does apple cider vinegar clean hair? 

It can help clarify it and remove deposits from conditioners and other product buildup. I like it for that as well and have added it to my hair care routine! I do believe using it helps with overall scalp health.

Are there Medical Studies on how ACV works and what it helps?

There are some smaller studies on ACV and how it can help with weight loss etc. There are no medical studies I know of about how it helps with scalp itch.

Like this type of post (using household items to make life better)? Don’t miss my essential oil blend that has saved us a ton!

Also, be sure to check out my other weird things that work in this series.

This post was originally written 2015 but has been updated.

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**This post isn’t JUST for plus size subscriptions, many offer all size options — so read on to find out some alternatives to Stitch Fix — no matter your size! **

Plus Size Clothing Boxes

Plus size clothing. It can be a real downer. Am I right? Not sure why….

Somehow they think we love cheetah, and sparkles. When really, I want that exact same shirt that’s a size 6 over there, but in a size 18. Why isn’t THAT possible?

And why is it that every cute Instagram clothing line only goes up to size 16. Hold me plus sized friends, hold me now….

But, then I saw that the ever-present Stitch Fix Box offered clothing in women’s sizes — and the photos, well — they look like normal clothes — in plus size sizes.

{insert happy dance}

This post is going to include (you can click on the link to go to just that subscription box service):

• Dia & Co (size 14+)
• Stitch Fix (all sizes – including maternity)
• LeTote (also has maternity)
• Novalie
• Natalie Attired
• Gwynniebee
• Mmlafleur
• Plvsh

(have other ones you’d like for me to check-out — make a comment and I’ll look into it!)

Plus Size Clothing Boxes

So, I ordered my first stitch fix. Truth be told, the first box was a bit of a horror — but everything fit. Just wasn’t me. Second box on the next shipment was better.

So, let’s talk plus size women clothing subscription boxes. What’s good, what’s bad — and maybe, most importantly — what fits your price preferences, style profile, and your needs?

I want to take you step by step through each of the personal styling services. I’m slowly working through them on my own (most of these don’t offer any free boxes or discounts to bloggers, so I need to work through them with my own budget too).

Plus Size Online Stylist

The basic idea of these clothing services (most of these work this way, but not all of them)

1. You take a style service questionnaire (some call it a style quiz) of your sizing, style preferences, etc.
2. You pay a styling fee (many waive them for your first try)
3. They send you the pieces of clothing
4. You have 3-5 days to try the items on and give feedback
5. Return the specific items you don’t want — most often you get free shipping both ways, and they include a bag for returns.

**Keep in mind that I have a LOT of constraints when I order a box. **

• I’m a size 18w’ish
• I have many modesty standards that I keep — no low tops, dresses/skirts must go to the knee, shoulders covered — etc.

So I’ll be really honest in what I found

Is there a stitch fix for plus size?

In a word.  yes. {horray!}  And, the best part, it’s not all animal print and sparkles.  Let’s dive in!

Plus Size Clothing Subscription Reviews

Dia & Co Plus Size Clothing Subscription

Dia is ALL About plus-sized women. A shopping service with clothing items JUST for us!

** I can get your styling fee waived through this link (and only that link, so click it now). That means you can get your DIA box at NO cost (go through the style survey and it will show up when they send you your box). If you don’t like the clothes — send it back with no charges (shipping is always free both ways). But, if you love the clothes — keep them just like usual!**

I recently tried it and, guys, I was pleasantly surprised (to say the least). I feel like some of these boxes might be jack of all trades, master of none — but Stitch Fix certainly has the plus sized ladies in mind. You can read all about it in my DIA Review.

The Good: I love that dia & co. is just for plus-sized women, and also that the stylists are plus-sized women. They get us.  I also like how they say they understand that clothing brands vary a lot in sizing and with your measurements they’ll find the right fit!

The Bad: It is JUST for plus-sized women. I am looking to lose weight this year — so if I did dip below the sizing into smaller sizes I’d have to quit.

Price: There is a $20 styling fee which can be applied to items in your box.

Pricing of Items : Average price of an item is $55.  Buy all 5 items get 25% off the box price. I have a whole post about the Dia & Co Pricing.

Sizing: 14 and up.

Stitch Fix Clothing Subscription

Ok friends, this is the first one I tried. You can see a detailed analysis of open boxes, and what I got on this stitch fix page.

The Good: Stitch Fix, I think, is the oldest around. They’re well known and it’s likely a lot of your friends have ordered with them before too! I don’t know you about you — but sometimes I like to be with the popular crowd and say — OH, I got my stitch fix box.

The Bad: My first fix was pretty poor (and I find that’s pretty normal amongst my friends who have tried it), but the 2nd one was closer, although some were off — I think it’s going to get better and better.

Price:  There is a $20 styling fee for each box which can be applied to any items you purchase (you’ll see this is pretty standard amongst these boxes).

Pricing of items: Tops seem to be in the $50 price range, pants in $100 and shoes in the $70 range. Think higher-end department store pricing. If you buy the whole box of clothing you get 25% off.

Quality: Absolutely great. I was looking for items that would wear better, and I’ve found them!

Sizing: 0-24W and XS-3X, and, as an aside — they also carry men’s sizes XS-XXL (they also have Kid’s Stitch Fix)

I liked the clothing subscription service, and frankly — seeing it’s on its way gives me a major happy feeling. I also really felt that after giving them my measurements clothing fit REALLY well. A great feeling after spending far too much time at the regular store trying on item after item that did NOT fit.

Don’t forget that Stitch Fix does maternity as well!

>> Try out Stitch Fix Today! <<

Novalie Subscription Boxes

New to the scene, my friend Bonnie has a new subscription box that goes up to 3x. In the box you get one item, an accessory and a beauty item — so, while not really a wardrobe builder, it is more like a treat you give yourself every month!

Check out Novalie Subscription Boxes here.

Natalie Attired Plus Size Style Box

Natalie Attired seems VERY similar to Stitch Fix — and I do mean VERY similar.

The Good: It looks like they have sales — as I’m on it right now you can get up to 30% off your box if you buy the whole thing (or just 10% off if only buy one thing)  I did think this part of the website was interesting:

The Natalie Attired personal Style Survey consists of questions based on Shari Braendel’s proven and proprietary assessment methods

I have no idea who that lady is — but it seems like they’re figuring out what colors look good on you (vs Stitch Fix where they’re taking colors you already like).

The Bad:  Looks so similar to Stitch Fix — I’m not sure why you wouldn’t just use the original, but I think it also might be fun to try something different.   Also,  I’m a little concerned about them picking the colors I like — but that’s because I had a brief tango with Dressing your Truth that kind of cemented the colors I do like.

Price:  There is a $20 styling fee which can be applied to items in your box.

Pricing of Items : They don’t give pricing — but they do take your budget into consideration when sending you items.  It seems similar to Stich Fix Pricing.

Sizing:  2 to 22.  Sorry 0 girls — you’ll have to shop elsewhere.

Mmlafleur Clothing Subscription Box, Plus Size

This one is WAY out of my league, ladies.  BUT, I am also not looking dressy for work each day.  If that’s you — this may be the perfect fit!

The Good: Made for the professional woman, this one is clearly high end.  I love the sizes, although I wish they’d go higher.  However, I think it can be REALLY hard to find professional work wear in plus sized options, so this would be super helpful for ladies in that category.

The Bad:  It’s clearly high end, and professional.  If you’re wanting to look nice just to lunch with a few friends, this probably isn’t the one for you.

Price:  I don’t see a styling fee.  It says join for free.

Pricing of Items: “Prices range from $110 for a chic work top to $325 for a statement dress”

Sizing:  0P–22W

Check out MmLaFleur here.

Plvsh Plus Size Subscription Box

Plvsh (no idea how you say that) is just for sizes 14 and up!  On their site they say:

PLVSH is the ultimate plus size boutique bringing you the best in designer plus size fashion.

The Good: They have an online store to give you an idea of what they carry (although that’s not what is always shipped to you in the box).

The Bad:  They pre-auth your card for the entire amount of the box (although it isn’t charge to you).  I know this bugs some people, but not me so much.  I get that they need to be sure you’ll pay if you don’t return the items.  You’re only charged for the items you keep.

Price:  There is a $25 styling fee which will be waived if you make a purchase.

Pricing of Items:  You can see the pricing of items in their shop here.  Items look to be on the more expensive/boutique side.  No discount for keeping the whole box.

Sizing:  0P–22W

Plus Size Clothing Rental

LeTote Plus Size Clothing Rental

LeTote is awesome for special items you only need once.  They serve sizes XS to XXL.

It’s more of a clothing RENTAL service — as you would ship the clothes back (and then get new clothes).

Think of Le Tote as Netflix for clothes.

The good:  Great high-end items that you can try.  Also, if you want to buy them, the clothing is discounted by how much wear it has had.

The Bad;  You’re using used closed, and that may be a turn-off to some, but all of them are well-taken care of.

Price:  $59-$79 — but you can get as MANY Totes as you’d like for that price.  So, wear the item once and then ship it back, and get new stuff!  Plus, if you love an item you can buy it (at a discounted price, depending on wear).

Price of Items:  Around $50, but it depends on the wear of the item (and what it is).

Sizing: XS to XXL — they also have MATERNITY!

Gwynniebee Plus Size Clothing Rental Box

This one’s model is a little different.

You take the time to explore what they have and put items in your “closet”. Then, they ship them to you. You can wear them as many times as you’d like (or keep them) and then send them back.

You almost need to think that you’re “renting” the items for the price. This is GREAT for someone who wants a rotating wardrobe of MANY items.

The Good: I like that you can pick items you like (no surprises), and it would be AWESOME if you had an event you needed something to wear to (and likely wouldn’t wear again). I also like that items are discounted from retail if you purchase.

The Bad: I am not sure I love the idea of returning them. I’m looking for staple items to support my capsule wardrobe.

I’m also not sure that I’d love to make my own “virtual closet” — the idea for me (at least) is that I wanted someone ELSE to dress me. Plus, taking the time to do that is almost like shopping {sigh}. BUT, you can schedule a consultation with one of their stylists for more help, so that’s pretty cool. They also have a mobile app, so you can do it on the go.

And, if you don’t love wearing clothes other people have worn (which doesn’t bother me) this might not be the option for you.

Price: Gwynnie bee is $69/month for 2 items (it looks like they often have a month for free — so that’s pretty cool). Goes up to $159/month for more items (and pricing between depending on the number of items you want).

Pricing of Items : Each item is discounted based on how long it’s been in the closet — meaning if a few other women have also worn the item, it will be cheaper. So item cost REALLY varies.

Sizing: 10-32

Best Plus Size Clothing Subscription Box

So, which one do I recommend?

Honestly, right now — Dia & Co.  This is a change, as I liked Stitch Fix quite a fair amount — but, IF you are plus-sized I think DIA is the one for you.  If you’re regular-sized I would 100% try Stitch Fix.  I think it’s going to help you step out of your comfort zone!  Honestly, I don’t think you can go wrong with either of them.

I am also REALLY thinking about trying Trunk Club — has anyone tried them?

One thing I would for SURE recommend on ALL of the services is to take a good amount of time filling out the questionnaire, and be super specific (also, be specific as to why you’re sending back items).  Many of them ask for a Pinterest board — so take some time to fill one with some favorite looks so they can get an idea of you (this one is mine).

That’s it for now.  Is there one that I missed?  I’m excited to try them all (or at least most of them).  I’ll be posting any further reviews I have on this page — so be sure to sign up below to be notified of them.  And be sure to check out my other fashion/beauty posts.

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Please note that the review for these nails was done in 2019. I no longer wear nail strips and have heard that some companies have upped their quality since then (especially Lilly and Fox) — so definitely read the comments too for people’s experiences with them.

A few of the companies in this post have gone out of business or are no longer selling — be sure to check out my post on the best nail strips 2024!

Nail Strips

Why Nail Polish Nail Strips?

Nothing beats a great mani/pedi at a nail salon– but the time and expense can be daunting. At-home just isn’t the same, and if you lack coordination (like me) it can be REALLY HARD to get a good manicure on your own. SO, nail strips offer a convenient and stylish option. Which one is best?

Benefits of Nail Strips

They’re really easy to apply the strips, and require no dry time. Plus they come in great colors.

There are even some of the gel manicure variety that give your own nails a really solid base (I love this type if I was moving or something heavy on my nails). No base coat is required (although some people prefer to use a top coat).

Just make sure that you’re staring with a clean nail (I wash my hands and then wipe with nail polish remover (some use an included prep pad) to make sure it’s starting out “fresh”.

I really do believe that with the right strips, you can have a salon-quality manicure, and even look like a nail artist.

Some of the strips come in solid colors and some have an accent nail, there are also french tips, and some of them are all patterns (sparkles, geometric designs). There are a lot of options.

These beautiful nails come in different sizes for a better fit on your different fingers.

Remember, the great thing is that there is no drying time, and you’re much less likely to mess up than with regular nail polish or gel polish. These are NOT fake nails (although some of the brands carry a separate fake nail kit).

NO uv lamp, warmth or warm water is required with these nail polish stickers. And your right hand is just as easy to do as your left. No artistic skills necessary!

As you read these reviews, please note that this is my review of them in 2019. Any of the brands may have changed their formulation since then. Many people have said that Lily and Fox has gotten better, but I have not re-tried them. FYI.

Review of Incoco Nail Strips

Price: 6’ish

Incoco nail strips are made by the same people who do Color Street Strips. They have had them for sale for Walmart or Ulta Beauty for years under the brand Incoco.

You can also get them at Sally’s and at Ulta, as far as I hear.

They are actually the first nail strips I tried (I did try Jamberry a few years ago with lack-luster results). I have also tried the “stickers” you can get at the dollar store. They lasted about a day.

I love the price and how easy it is to grab them at my local Walmart.

I have also ordered them online and picked them up in-store, as Walmart.com has a larger variety than my actual store.

Application is very easy. The strips are well made and the “tabs” come off easily.

Wear is good, but I did notice cracking on the lighter nail varieties. I think it was only noticeable to me — but it is there. Really tiny cracks.

They also chip quite a lot on the ends. I am not easy on my nails, by any stretch of the imagination. I type a LOT and I also do dishes and clean quite a bit.

I also notice on these that my nail will snag on the area closest to my cuticle as these grow out. It’s annoying.

These strips feel very smooth and polish-like though.

An absolute dream for someone who hates painting their nails (and gets the polish all over).

Review of Luna Nail Wraps

Price: $6’ish (with free standard shipping)

Luna Nail Wraps are brand new to the market, and I was excited to try them (they did send them to me, but they are local to me so I am also excited to support a small business).

BTW use code PULLINGCURLS to save 10% at Luna Nails!

Putting the nail wraps on was a simple process. They feel VERY similar to Color Street and Incoco.

The one issue is that the “top” part of the nail doesn’t tear off. We had to use nail clippers to cut around it. It was also a bit harder to get the backing and the clear sheet to tear off, but nothing too hard to handle.

Also, in comparison with Color Street, I couldn’t use my finger nail to tear off the nail strip at my cuticle, it was a bit too thick. That being said — I’ve had a hard time with that on all the brands.

Wear was pretty good, this Instagram shows some of the cute glitter ones I have and how they lasted (these are pictured after a week).

Luna Nail Pro’s

SO many cute colors and patterns (similar to Lily and Fox below) and she gets new ones really frequently

Free, fast shipping (and she sends a little treat too)

Lasted well, very little chipping

Came off easily with mineral nail polish remover. Some people still use an acetone nail polish remover for these too.

Small business, which is always awesome to support!

Luna Nail Con’s

Feel a bit more rubbery than color street — they also seem thicker (which is probably why they had better wear).

Application process was a bit harder than Color Street — doesn’t come off the backing and the top clear cover doesn’t come-off as easily.

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Nails Mailed Review

I have ordered a set from Nails Mailed and just put them on. They are exactly the same as Luna Nail wraps (but I don’t have a coupon code). A little “sticky” feeling but otherwise well wear. Seem a bit thicker than Color Street but I was pretty pleased.

Review of Dashing Diva Nail Strips

Price: $7

I found these (actually, my daughter found them, and gave them to me for Mother’s Day) in Walmart. I love that they’re available there. They are also on their website.

Putting them on went well, except I felt like they didn’t have very many large strips and I had to go with a smaller strip for my thumb.

Easy to reposition and nail still stuck well.

The strip was harder to “file” off — I tried filing, but next time I think I’d cut them with a nail clipper to see if it works better.

These strips seem thicker and more “rubbery” than the other brands. I think these are more gel nail strips (because of that weird feeling — it does feel so much different).

The strips stayed on SO well. No chips, no cracking. Just my nail growing out til’ it’s awkward so I took them off. You can see in the picture above (top is day 1 and the bottom is at two weeks — I had hardly ANY chipping and they looked great!

I used just a drop of cuticle oil and just pulled it off with a cuticle stick (which is how they recommend). I did also try nail polish remover. It didn’t work quite as easily and I felt like it left extra goo on my nail.

Overall I didn’t like removal as much as I liked the Incoco. I feel like it might not be AS healthy for your nail, but I haven’t tried them enough times to be sure…

But, the nails looked better close up and I like all the options they have for “accent” nails. I was able to use quite a few of the nails on both the left and right of my hand, but not the for my thumbs. The strips don’t seem quite as wide.

They also have a pretty good variety of nails if you shop in their online store, and I like all the “accent nail options”.

Review of Lily & Fox Nail Strips

Price $2.99

Fyi, I only found these online, but they do have free shipping.

I was SUPER excited to try these! I loved the price, but most of all I loved all the different options that they had. SO many cute colors and patterns. Great themes for holidays, etc.

At first glance, they look like the rest of them.

Then, I pulled them out of their package, and tried to use them.

It was a SUPER difficult application process.

First off, the clear stuff on the top was super hard to peel off, and it was also more difficult to get the sticker off the backing.

The sticker itself seems thicker than Color Street. The first side went on fine, but when I went to remove the tab and use the other half for my other nail…. it wouldn’t come off.

I ended up stretching the sticker and it was super wonky for my other nail.

Eventually, I just started cutting off the “tab” section on each nail, which made it work.

Also, I bought stripes for my first go with these, and that made it even harder, fyi — for any of these, I think I’ll steer clear of stripes for a bit. I’m not that adept.

The wear on these was horrible. Within minutes I was seeing chipping along the edge of my nail. Sometimes it didn’t chip, but the “sticker” would just slouch up — making it super annoying.

I had chips and weirdness on them immediately. You an also tell in the photo above (the top is day 1 and the bottom is day 7) that some of the color rubbed off, and they just wore REALLY weird.

The sticker itself was more like a “sticker’ and was pushing up on my nails.

By day 7 I was completely over them and removed them.

They came off similarly to Dashing Divas in that I ended up just pulling the whole sticker off. I tried to use nail polish remover but it left a goopy glue layer on my nail that I wasn’t a fan of.

Anyway, I was SUPER disappointed with this brand. I do have a few other strips and I might try them, but from application to wear, they were a big fat no. Sadly.

If they changed their formula and made them easier to apply I’d be on board to try them again. They have SO many cute patterns. Just didn’t execute well. I also feel like these were nail stickers vs real nail polish strips.

Review of Color Street Nails

Price $13

Shipping was also $3 — making these by FAR the most expensive. If I had bought 3 I could’ve gotten one set for free, putting them closer to the $10 dollar range (and shipping is always $3).

I thought I’d try the ACTUAL Color Street if I was going to share alternatives with you guys.

After trying Lily And Fox these were an absolute DREAM to put on.

SO easy to get them off the paper and apply to my nail.

I actually think they were easier than Incoco.

They smoothed out so nicely, and they don’t feel like rubber on my fingers.

I had heard they were of a higher quality than Incoco, but honestly, after I put them on (which was easier) they feel pretty much the same. If you buy through a color street rep (my friend McKenzie sells them) you will get a much larger variety of nails to try, but the nails themselves seem pretty similar to Incoco.

Also, you do get more nails with Color Street than you do with Incoco – so that is a benefit!

Keep in mind that they say you can only use them when you open them. That’s because these CAN dry out. I put mine in a ziplock and cross my fingers, but a lot of my friends use their flat iron to seal the packet for their 2nd use.

I could also use my food sealer…. but that seems like a lot….

I also liked that they include a larger variety of nail sizes. They had one much bigger than my thumb (it would have to be for your toe) and they have one that is smaller than my pinky. Which, is nice.

These seem to wear very similar to Incoco. I noticed some chipping on the ends right away. The strips I chose were darker in color, and I don’t notice cracking (but I find it’s harder to notice that on darker colors).

Removing Color Street Nails

This can be really problematic as those nails STICK to you (which is great, til’ you want them off).

I use this mineral remover, and it works a lot better. I also think it is healthier for your nails.

My big issue with Color Street is that it is a MLM and I just don’t like that business model. I also much prefer to just get my wraps at the store rather than having to wait to get in contact with their independent stylists and then get them sent, etc. Between that and the price point, that’s what sent me to look for Color Street alternatives. But, I do love the color street nail strips — they probably are the best.

Nail Wraps Compared to At-Home Gel Nails

While I was at a family reunion one night, my niece was doing gel nails for all the girls, which was awesome.

They turned out great and they are wearing really well on my daughter.

It had to have taken DOUBLE the amount of time to do that gel nail thing vs the nail wraps — because I did my color street set while they did theirs.

Yes, the gel thing is probably cheaper once you have the whole kit and are only buying the polish. But, yipes! The time!

Also, my daughter said it sting-d, I think after they put the top coat on.

A great finished product, just a lot of time. I’d guess at least 1/3 an hour, and that’s when someone else is painting your nails for you!

No one’s nails lasted as long as the strips though, I find the strips to be much easier and longer lasting than at-home gel nails!

Tips for Nail Wraps at Home

With all of these, I found some tips that seem to help the application.

You can use both ends of the nail wrap

I would cut them in half vs trying to file/nail clip off the end.

You can re-stick a nail wrap

These are great, because if you get the wrap on your nail (before you cut it off) you can lift it up and try it again. So, if you don’t get it centered, or you end up placing it diagonally, just lift up and try again.

These nail wraps vs Jamberry

Now, I’m pretty sure that Jamberry is out of business. BUT, I did use them back in the day. The biggest pain point was that they had to use heat to “seal” onto your nails. That was just a big fat pain. None of these require heat to attach to your nail — which is awesome!

How to cut off the nail wrap

With an of them, you’ll need to cut it off the end of your nail (the excess) somehow.

With all of the brands, I preferred clipping the ends off — often taking a bit of my nail off with it.

I know they say to wrap it around your nail and then use the filing board to file it off. But that always left me with jagged ends, I thought.

I already don’t love them for the first 24 hours or so, but using a nail clipper helps a lot.

FAQ’s about Nail Polish Strips

Ultimate Comparison between Color Street and Alternatives

Best nail stickers:

• Color Street/Incoco seem to have the best strip formula
• I love how Luna has more variety (like, a LOT more).
• Ultimately, I think Dashing Diva was my favorite if you are looking for STRONG nails. They just make your nails SOLID. They’d be especially great if you were doing something tough on your nails, as I think they are a good support. They just feel a bit weird, and I don’t know that I’d wear them frequently as I felt they hurt my nail health a bit when I ripped them off).

So, that’s all I can say about these. I actually only use them anymore a couple of times a year because I don’t like what any of them do to my nails. They just seem so brittle for a month of so afterwards.

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2024 update: I’m a little nervous the more I learn about Dia & co as of late, I now recommend Stitch Fix instead of them, but have left this article intact from previously. Read my Stitch Fix post here!

Dia and Co Review

In this Review, I’m going to:

• Discuss cost (plus prices per item)
• Share how to get the best box
• Show some unboxing videos from 2018 as well as showing the clothes tried on.
• At the end, I’ll compare it to my experience with Stitch Fix.

Full Disclosure, Dia did send me these boxes at no cost, but all reviews are unbiased.  You can see all of my plus size fashion subscription reviews.

**If you have tried Dia & Co before, leave me a comment to let me know what you thought!

Dia & Co Offer

Dia is always having coupon codes check that top banner to see today’s offer

How does DIA and Co work?

Dia & Co. is a clothing subscription service for ladies sizes 14-32 — so it serves a wide range of sizes.

Which I found very exciting.

It works very similarly to most Clothing Subscription boxes.

You fill out a style survey for your style profile and style preferences (takes about 15-20 minutes) including questions like:

• Sizes (both tops and bottoms) — and some measurements
• What types of items you’d like to get
• Colors you like
• Colors you don’t like
• Your style
• Your social media handles/links
• What type of items you want (I only want clothes, no scarves or jewelry)

#toomanyshoes

Pro Tip:  Be SURE to fill out this style quiz thoroughly and give them a lot of help with picking items you’ll like!

They also have an activewear version — pretty cool for those of us who don’t want to show up to work out in a sports bra and tiny shorts.   I just got a Dia Active box from my personal stylist and reviewed it!

• You fill out the questionnaire, decide what you want, and then you schedule your fix and boom — it arrives at your door.
• Then, you have 5 days to figure out which items you want to keep or send back (if you need extra time, just email them).
• The pricing for the items are in the box, and you pay for any items you keep.
• If you keep ALL the items, you save 25% on the whole box (I have a whole post about the Cost of Dia & Co)
• They send an addressed and prepaid shipping bag to do the returns with.  Shipping and returns are all included in that $20 styling fee.

It’s very similar to other styled subscription boxes.  In fact, I have a whole post about plus-size clothing subscription services.

Related post:  Overweight at Disneyland

Dia and Co Vs Stitch Fix

I have enjoyed my stitch fix boxes.  It’s sort of fun to see what someone else thinks you should wear and move outside your comfort zone.

Want to see what I liked at Stich Fix — here’s my post all about Plus Six Stitch Fix Reviews.

The reality is that you have to find a stylist you mesh with no matter if it’s with Dia or with Stitch Fix box.

The reality of Dia is that my clothes started to all look alike. They didn’t have a lot of turnover in the types of clothes they were offering, so switching it up seems fun!

I am toying with the idea of trying Trunk Club for some basics that I will love.  The prices keep me from jumping so far.

Cost of the Subscription Service

If you’re really interested, I have a whole post on the cost, where I break it down by item and box pricing.

But, to sum it up….

Dia & Co has a styling fee of $20 dollars, which can be applied towards any item in your box (so, if you buy at least ONE item, it’s essentially waived)

Pricing

The cost of the individual items varies.  I’ve found mine to be around $50/item.  Shirts being in the $40-50 range.  Pants being in the $60-80 range, in general.  Below I show the price of each item.

Also, if keep the full as with most clothing subscription services you save 25% on the box.

I have a post where I break down the cost of Dia & co by item and box.

Dia & Co Reviews 2019

Because I wanted this post to still load — I decided to break out some of my later boxes — so, just click the link below and you can check them out! You can also scroll down to see a few of my early boxes.

In 2019 I started using Dia more for specific events and I think that will help you see a bit more of what YOU would get when you send in a request (also, using them for specific events if AWESOME as I am not a huge fan of shopping for the events anyway).

In this post, you’ll find links to my unboxing videos, along with my first box (the post was just getting too big with them all in one spot).

I also have a youtube playlist on my youtube channel that shows all of the video unboxings and Dia and co reviews:

Some of these videos are my first look, didn’t peek at it before this video (that’s my favorite kind)  they have sent the boxes (which I am super grateful for) but all opinions are my own and I wasn’t paid for the review.  The newest unboxings are first (to make the post smaller, new boxes are posted on a different page — all can be accessed here:

Using a Subscription Box for Vacation Clothes — Time for vacation — can Dia & Co send me just the right clothes?

What to Wear to Disneyland — I asked for a box of clothes for Disneyland, check out what they sent!

What to wear to a blog conference — an unboxing and review of a few boxes in 2019 (each for difference conferences – the one at the top of this posts is one of my favoirte boxes EVER — SO me — I think they are 100% getting me anymore!!!!!)

What to Wear on a Cruise — my February 2019 Box.

Reviews 2018

December 2018 Dia & Co Box Review — this blog post is a really honest look at what worked, and what didn’t.

Dia & Co Active Box — I got an Active box. Three words: BEST. SPORTS. BRA.

November 2018

You can find the video here (it’s also on the playlist above).

The video above is my “open box” with my first impressions of the items — below, I try them on and I’ll share pricing and what I thought with the clothes on.

Remember that if you purchase the entire box –you get the items each at 25% off — the 2nd price listed is the 25% off price

#1: Green Prescott Lace-up Top: $45/33.75

Ok, initially, not a fan.  The green is sort of “blah” and not a color I use frequently.  I am not a huge fan of the lacing, and I will have to wear a t-shirt under it.  For me, this is the one loser of the box…. but I would have kept it to save 25% on the whole box

#2: Brown Faraella Ponte Pants: $65/48.75

These pants have a cool “leather” on the pocket that could look really sleek, but these were NOT the right size (18).  They were super tight like leggings and I was not a fan.  I exchanged them for a size (or two — if possible) up.

#3: Purple Meri Skye carnation Maxi Dress $69/51.75

I love this dress so much, I can’t even talk about it.  There’s some roucheing on the side that looks AMAZING.  The dress can easily be dressed-up or dresed down.  Big fan.  Want to marry this dress.

#4: Orange Marybelle Blouse $55/41.25

This is NOT a color that I normally wear but I REALLY like it on me.  I’m not sure if I love the “bell” sleeves, but I think since they are 3/4 I can do OK with them

#5: Blue Morgan & Walker Waldorf ankle jean $65/48.75

I LOOOOVE the color on these pants.  They were a bit tight (size 18) so I am hoping to exchange for a different size.  But I really like them, and I think they’re a great addition to my wardrobe — and can be worn with a lot of different things.

November 2018 Total Dia Box Price: $299 ~ If you keep the full box it would be $224.25

I was REALLY happy with this box.  If they had gone with a brighter top instead of the green it would a have been a 100% home run win!

This is a bit more than my regular cost of a box — but I think winter items often cost more (and this box didn’t include a skirt, which are often cheaper than pants).

August 2018:

August 2018 Dia & Co Subscription Box (includes an open box & photos of myself in the clothes)

Unboxing May 2018

You can find the unboxing here.

Here’s a review of each piece, and what I thought:

Floral Shirt — $50 — ($37.50 if I kept the full box)

I LOOOVE the colors in this top (Instagram didn’t love it — but I do).  It feels pretty sturdy and I like the sparkles on the shirt.

It’s super comfy and light weight, big fan.  The $50 price tag is a bit high.  BUT, if it’s a sturdy shirt that wears well, I think it’s a big win.

Half Sleeve Shirt $59.00 ($44.25)

I REALLY like this shirt.  The polyester blend is different than what I usually wear, but it’s SUPER light weight and I think it will pack well for business trips, etc.  Colors are great, and I’m a fan.

Embroidered Jeans $75.00 ($56.26)

These are AWESOME jeans.  And HELLO — how cute is the embroidery?  I’m absolutely loving them.  Something VERY different than what I ususally have.  The price tag (especially with the full-box discount) is pretty decent for quality jeans.  These have a great cotton/polyester/ spandex blend that fees great on and isn’t too tight.

Flutter Tee $45 ($33.75)

This one is out there.  I really worry about how it will wash.  I think it would certainly be one I would consider NOT getting (although, with the discount, it’s the cheapest item in the box so I’d probably keep it).

The top part of the shirt is a little big (update: they had it back in stock and sent me the new one to exchange — I like the smaller size much better) but I love that it’s white (much cooler) and I do like the colors and the different nature of it is fun.

Skirt $65 ($48.75)

I thought it was too short, but it (honestly) is JUST the right length.  I can still get plenty of “air flow” during the hot summer months, but I am also covered.  I don’t know that I would wear this to church as it’s hard to keep your skirt down for 3 hours, but I would certainly wear it to lunch or out to do errands this summer.

Colors are a BIT bland, but I like how it looks on, it’s lined so I don’t have to wear a slip with it.  It’s a win in my book.

Review March 2018

This is my first Dia & Co clothing subscription box — so it’s interesting to see how they got to “know” me more — although, this box still has some of my favorites.

Let’s look at each item a bit more:

(keep in mind, if you order the whole box (which I would) you save 25% off the cost of each item (I’ll list that cost to the side of the regular price)

Purple Dress — $69 ($52 is the amount if I purchase the whole box)

O. My. GOSH –guys, this dress is SO comfortable — and SO modest.  I absolutely love it.

They send it to me in a 1x and the top is just a BIT big — so I’m seeing if I can exchange it (stay tuned for more info on the exchange process).  BUT, this is 100% me.  Great colors, I love the floral.  It’s not some cheap knit.  Great quality.  Great comfort.  Looks pretty good (full disclosure, I did order some “Spanx” on Amazon to try to get the faux baby bump to disappear on my upper abdomen if I’m going somewhere fancy).

Huge fan of this one

Pink Shirt — $55 ($41)

While this isn’t dressy by any standard.

I feel like the ruched long sleeves give it some fun details.

The fabric is SUPER soft.  It’s an easy wear.  I like it.  I probably wouldn’t pay $55 for it — but after the discount, I think it’s fairly reasonable (and already at my house).  Also, I have a hard time finding stuff in the right pink shade for me, so I was really happy to find it.

Navy Print Pants — $69 ($52)

Guys.  Pants are really my daemon.

And I must admit, I’m kind of tired of jeggings – but on the other hand, I don’t love boot cut.  I just want some COMFORTABLE PANTS.  DANG IT.

Enter these guys.

No zipper — elastic waistband, but they can easily be jazzed up or down.  Huge fan.

Also, this is a great example of stepping out of my box.  I don’t know that I would have ever tried them on in the store — but at home, I was able to take a little time to think they might work.

Blue (Chambray) Shirt $55 ($41)

This shirt is SO light.  I actually got one that was similar from Stitch Fix a few boxes ago and didn’t love it.  But this one, with the flouncy sleeves — and not being button-down — I just like it more

BTW, button down for big girls — doesn’t seem to be a winner… just sayin’… (and Dia knew that).

Again, for $55 — pretty expensive for me, but for $41 it’s doable.

Green Capris $75 ($56)

Guys — these are SO fun.  I asked for bright colors (I found a lot of that with Dressing Your Truth) and they showed-up with bright colors (I sort of feel like Stitch Fix shy’d away from bright colors because I’m a bigger girl).  I think these will be great in the summer.  They look good, they’re easy to wear and will go with a fair amount of stuff.

Buuut…. 75?  Kind of a lot.  I’ll admit.  I did mention on my after-shop that was kind of expensive for capris.

Buuut (real talk) — part of me is doing this to just find clothes that LOOK and WEAR better — and I think I’m going to have to shell out some cash to find that.

So, I kept the whole box (full disclosure, they sent this box to me at no cost — but I loved the majority so much it would save me money to keep them all anyway).

Let’s talk what the whole thing costs:

Total Box Cost $327

Total box cost with Discount: $245.25

That box price seems to be a bit more than what I’ve seen around on the internet….  most seem to be under $300.  They say the average price cost is $55 and mine were clearly over that (and I did say I had a special event coming up).  If they’re $55 — that makes the cost $275 and if you use the discount it makes it just over $200.

What I love about Dia & Co.

They really listen, I feel like they get me when I fill out the form.  I don’t feel that other subscription companies do — but I REALLY felt like Dia did.

If you get a box and absolutely hate it, I’d contact customer service (I’d email or chat with them on their site).  They really want to make you happy, and will work with you.

Keep in mind that your styling fee of $20 is applied to anything you purchase.  So, if you keep something, they subtract $20 from the purchase price of the item/s.

If you are a plus size woman, looking to try a subscription personal styling service, I totally recommend Dia and continue to use them.  I would get started ASAP!

Dia & Co Complaints

Honestly, I don’t have many.  I think they REALLY listened to me when I filled out my questionnaire.  I haven’t been sent items that I can’t wear due to my modesty standards, and they haven’t sent me clothes that don’t fit the colors I prefer to wear.

I haven’t been able to exchange a few items due to them being out of the item, which can be frustrating.

The price is a bit high, but in all reality, I don’t think it’s any different than any other subscription service.

Their customer service is prompt and courteous.  They can be accessed right from the Dia site.  Returns are easy.  I’m a pretty happy camper.

BUT, if you get a box you don’t love — you need to be SUPER specific on why you didn’t love it.  A big part of getting things you love is filling out a questionnaire thoroughly — so they really know what you like!  I would recommend emailing their customer support as well and try it one more time.  Just to see if they can nail it that time.

Exchanges

On the pages where you say if you liked it — you can ask for an exchange.

What you do, is ask for the exchange — and then in a couple of business days, they’ll email you back to let you know if they have that item in stock to ship to you.

Then, you can decide.

If you’d like to keep both items until you decide, just let them know that.

It took a while for them to reply, by once they did they did have one (of two) of the items in stock and the switch was pretty simple.

Tips

Like all subscription boxes, I recommend taking a LOT of time to fill out your first survey.  Be VERY specific (I sent them a picture of my Dressing Your Truth Card — so they knew what colors I liked, and that seemed to help a lot with them — even though I sent it to Stitch fix, it didn’t really change anything there).  I think they are VERY thoughtful of that survey.  So be as SPECIFIC as you can.

Also, when you get your clothes, even if you keep them — fill out that post-box survey super specific as well.  It just helps them for the next time.

And honestly, if you 100% hate all the clothes — I’d email them to see if they can help you with your next box.  Customer service has been top notch, and I think they really do want to earn your business.

So, now it’s your turn.  Give Dia.com a try — I’m going to be doing it again soon.  I think bi-monthly would be great.  If you do it — tell me in the comments how often you get a box.

Dia & Co Faq’s

I hope this post explains how Dia works and how much I like it.  Ask any questions in the comments!

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Full Disclosure:  Dia and Co has offered me free boxes, all posts are of my own opinion and ideas though, I have also gotten some credits with Stitch Fix as well.

2024 update: I’m a little nervous the more I learn about Dia & co as of late, I now recommend Stitch Fix instead of them, but have left this article intact from previously. Read my Stitch Fix post here!

FYI, I also have a Dia & Co Review that shares all the boxes I’ve gotten and what I thought!

Dia and Co Prices

The total cost of Dia and Co includes:

• The styling fee
• Garment prices
• Full box price (should you choose to buy the entire box — you save 25%)

What is Dia & Co?

Dia & co is a clothing subscription service for plus size women. They offer clothing for women size 14 and up shipped right to your door from your own personal stylist. It’s like a personal styling service that can help take you out of your comfort zone while taking into account your style preferences.

How much is Dia and Co a month?

While there is no requirement to do Dia & Co every month, it is a $20 styling fee every time you order a box (you can have boxes automatically shipped to your home monthly, bi-monthly, OR you can choose when you want them).

That styling fee can be applied to any of the items in the box, but should you choose to keep nothing, you would be still charged the $20 fee.

FYI, this is how most subscription boxes work — and you can read all about that in my review of other plus size subscription boxes.

Honestly, I can’t imagine not having ANYTHING in my box I didn’t like.  If you keep anything, the styling fee is essentially free.

Dia.com prices

To share this I’m pulling out my sweet math skills.

Thank you high school calculus.

I am taking the average of the many style boxes I have received.  You can see the boxes in this post: Dia and Co Reviews.

For your frame of reference, the individual items I have the most of is shirts. I also didn’t get shoes or accessories from Dia.

I have recently gotten a Dia Active box.  Those prices aren’t reflected in this cost below as I think they would vary from regular clothes.

You can also see my actual spreadsheet here (please don’t ask to edit it for have permission to use it — etc — it’s just a spreadsheet for you to view).

Prices of Dia and Co Shirts

• Prices varied from 45-65 with the average being just under $53.
• Also, keep in mind that if you keep a full box, they give you 25% off everything in the box — that brings the price of shirts to just under $40.

Prices of Dia and Co Pants

• Prices varied from $69-$75 with an average of $70
• Full box price would put that just under $53

Prices of Dia and Co Skirts

• Prices varied from $42-$65, with an average of $53.
• Full box price would be just over $40

Prices of Dia and Co Dresses

• Prices varied from $59-$69, with an average price of $66
• Full box price would be $50

(and guys, I ALWAYS get compliments on my dia dresses!!!  They’re one of my favorite parts!)

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Dia Box Prices

My Dia boxes averaged $245-$294 for the full box of 5 items.  The average of the boxes was $266 — but remember, if you did keep a WHOLE box, you would for sure pay the box price — which averaged out to just under $200 for 5 items.

You can see all my Dia and Co boxes in this playlist:

How much is Dia and Co?

So, if you average the full box price — that puts the average price of garments at $53.

Now, keep in mind that I have requested no shoes, jewelry or scarves.  I JUST want clothes.

As a side note:  I am to a point in my life where I would MUCH rather have quality vs quantity.  If I have some blouses and pants that I LOVE I would rather have 10 individual items, vs 20 of things I don’t love.

And that type of love often requires a bit more cash than something you’d find a Ross or Forever 21.  Just keep that in mind as you try it out.

And, if quality over quantity is one of your goals too — try it today!

Stitch Fix Cost

Since I had all those prices pulled-up, I figured I’d average out what I got at Stitch Fix.  Keep in mind — my first Stitch Fix box was so bad, I didn’t even record the prices (and everything went back).

Average Stitch Fix Prices:

• Shirts $51
• Jackets/Cardigans $38
• Pants $94
• Shoes $74.50
• Dresses $60
• Full Box Average $313 ($234 with the discount)

Comparing Stitch Fix vs Dia and Co Pricing:

• Shirts: Same
• Pants:  Stitch Fix More
• Dresses: Same
• Full Box:  A bit more

I do think Stitch Fix gets GREAT pants brands, so their prices tend to be a bit higher.  However, I just couldn’t spend $100 on white pants that I’d probably stain within 3 minutes of wearing.  Haha.

In the end, I will likely keep using both services now and then for new things. But, see for yourself in my posts about Stitch Fix and Dia & Co box reviews:

• Dia & Co Reviews
• Dia & Co August 2018 Box Review
• Stitch Fix Review

Dia and Co Returns

With all this pricing talk, I’m sure you want to know how easily returns are — SUPER easy!  The great thing is your card is never charged for them, as long as you get them back to them within the period they give you (I believe it’s 5 days, which is a bit longer than Stitch Fix).

There is a pre-paid envelope in the box for free returns, you keep your favorite pieces and just ship what you don’t want back.

BUT, be thoughtful of returns. Often, if it’s just one piece of clothing, it might be cheaper to keep it and save the 25% on the full box. I have heard there are groups that you wouldn’t have a hard time selling the items in.

Is Dia & Co Worth it?

In my opinion, yes.  I wouldn’t do it monthly.  I try to do subscription boxes 2 or 3 times/year (as we only have 2 real seasons here in AZ).  They seem to REALLY listen to you (if you do a thorough job of filling out the style quiz for your style profile).  Plus, sometimes they offer a free trial, and then you’d be out nothing to try it, and perhaps you’d find a new item that you just love.

If you’d like to see my next box — be sure to sign up below, and check out my other fashion & beauty posts below that:

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Kids Stitch Fix for Teens

Kids Stitch Fix is available for kids sizes 2T to 14. If your teen fits in those sizes, they can USE kids stich fix (and honestly, it’s a bargain). If they’re beyond that size, they can try regular Stitch Fix

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I have two kids that fit that bill and both are PRETTY picky about what they wear.

This post is going to review a couple of boxes that my daughter has gotten. She has some modesty standards that she’s chosen to abide by which include:

• Covered shoulders
• Longer shorts (hard here in AZ where it seems like booty shorts are the standard)
• Covered Abdomen

But, she also loves clothes and looking cute and colorful, so I thought we’d give it a try.

BTW, I have also tried Stitch Fix for teen boys.  Check that post out too!

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2022 Stitch Fix for Teens

While I got this initial box while my daughter was just heading into her teens, I have gotten her a couple boxes/year since then.

I absolutely love it.

I love not having to deal with the stores.

I love that they send her stuff that is more “her” than “me” (because when I shop with her, I have a hard time taking my tastes out of the equation).

I really enjoyed getting their exclusive brands because it’s not the same shirt all the other girls got at Target, she’s able to have a few very different pieces from everyone else.

They are also helping her grow up with a sense of style and I may have kept her in little kid clothes forever. So, needless to say, I’m a fan.

Why try Kid’s Stitch Fix?

I just took both of these kids (I also have an older son in college) to the mall and wanted to DIE.  I felt like selection is just getting less and less, and it was HARD to find things that worked for THEM that weren’t insanely expensive.

While losing my mind I decided that Stitch Fix Kids might be worth our time.

What I was concerned about in trying Stitch Fix Kids

I was mostly worried about:

• If they’d stick to what we wanted to be covered up
• If pricing would be insanely high for using their expert stylists
• If the quality would still be good.

I have to say they hit all 3 and I’m REALLY thrilled with what she got.

2022 Update: I have ordered a new box for my daughter a couple of times the past few years. I love how she can “shop” from home and we’ve been really happy with what’s she’s gotten. I will say that sometimes they 100% forget the modesty requests… but such is life, right?

FYI, I was offered a credit to try my initial box, but other boxes have been either paid for by myself or some credits I had.

Ok, so now you can see her two unboxings, and I’m excited to share it with you!

You can really see they sent more “grown-up” stuff this time. I also had her write up her own review.

How Does Stitch Fix for Teens Work?

In case you’re new to stitch fix, let me give you a head up on how it all works.

Initially, you’ll pay a $20 styling fee (often I will have links in this post that waive that, or give you credits) — this pays for your personal styling service. You will answer their style quiz which will give you a style profile based off your child’s personal style. You can also mention if you need clothes for a specific special occasion.

If your child has a lot of strong tastes (or are picky kids), their first box might be a bit of a gamble. But, it does come with free shipping (and free return shipping) and that styling fee will be applied to any item you keep. Frankly, a couple of times I have gotten a box where I thought (?)– nothing seemed picked out for ME. I have then spoken to customer service and they have waived a styling fee on a 2nd box and asked me to be more specific on my own needs.

You CAN sign-up for automatic deliveries, but kids boxes come with so many articles of clothing I prefer to just picking when we want it. However, a lot of people use it as a fun monthly subscription. Monthly boxes would definitely allow you to just pick a few favorite pieces of clothing and send the rest back. It could also be a great way to fill out clothing in kids growing fast.

BTW with Stitch Fix you OWN the clothes, it is not a rental service.

I think kids stitch fix comes with 10 items, and adult stitch fix comes with 5 items. Kids items are much cheaper and the box usually comes in well under $200 for those 10 things. If you keep all 10 items, you get a 25% discount (so, even if you hate an item or two it is often cheaper to keep all 10 rather than send them back with the extra cost).

Kids stitch fix fits sizes 2t-14, and after that you’d move to the women’s clothing.

You can also go onto StitchFix.com and pick out a single item you think your kid could like. You don’t HAVE to just get the personal stylist.

I like to get a sneak peek on the website before my daughter opens the box (you can see photos of the items they shipped).

Once you’ve decided what you don’t want, you pack up the items in the prepaid return envelope and send those back. Make sure to get onto stitch Fix and tell them why you did/didn’t like items so they can fit you better the next time.

The main difference, and what I like is their large selection to pull from (so, she won’t be wearing the same thing as all the other girls at school) and that they try things I might not try for her. It gives her a chance to try some new things (and has helped her dress a bit more grown up than I would have thought of).

We tend to get boxes at the start of school and at the beginning of the 2nd semester. New clothing always puts a pep in your step, right?

For us the best part is not having to go to the store just wanting to “find something cute”. I do much better when we know we need a few new T-shirts, but finding full outfits is a bit overwhelming for both of us (neither of us are shoppers, but both of us like to look nice). For us, this has been the perfect option.

** Your child’s Stitch Fix account will be a sub-account of YOUR account — so the login will be the same for the both of you (and make sure to switch to their profile before you order their box).

Stich Fix for Tweens Unboxing 2019

I wanted to share this fix in my daughter’s words (because this fix was really important to me that she’d LOVE it (and you can tell this is in her voice)

In my Stitch fix, I loved many things. I also didn’t like other things. The people at Stitch Fix gave me lots of clothes that I loved. So, let’s talk about what I thought about clothes.

First I’d like to tell you about the Marabel Woven Flutter Sleeve Dress. I really liked the length, and I LOVE floral design. It was easy to put on, and I was happy that is didn’t need leggings under it because sometimes it gets really hot.

Next, the Jules Skater Dress. It was a long-sleeved dress, so I would normally wear it in the fall and winter, but I was surprised about how light the fabric was! Again, LOVE the floral.

Next, the Unicorn Cap Sleeve Tee. I didn’t really like this shirt as much as the other things. The unicorn’s hair just looked kind of weird to me, because a unicorn with a buzz cut isn’t something that you see every day. I liked the lilac color though. I don’t really have many shirts in that color so that was a nice addition.

Then there is the Nora Ruched ankle legging. I loved the design, and the blue was nice and light. The ruched ankle was a twist that I did not see when I first looked. They also weren’t a high score on the list of my favorites. I really loved the design but I don’t enjoy wearing leggings as much as shorts and other things.

Then there was the red and white striped cross-back top. I liked the design a lot. It was plain but trendy, and something I’d wear frequently because the fabric was light and comfy.

Then there was my light blue shirt with Twist Sleeves! I liked that one even though when I tried it on I put my arms in the wrong holes. I love blue so I was glad that shirt made it here.

Next, we have the Kiley Knot Front Tee which was gray and white striped. I liked the front knot because it was something I had never worn before. It was gray and white, so it was pretty simple, which I like.

Then, there was another pair of leggings. Leah Knit Leggings. And, as I’d mentioned earlier, I don’t like wearing leggings much… AND! I don’t like the design as much because it was JUST PINK LEGGINGS! I did like how they fit nicely with the other pink/red shirts.

Then there was the Drea Ruffle Sleeve Top. It was the only floral shirt and It had all of these laces-? It looked really cute and trendy. The collar was sort of made of lace so that was pretty cool.

Last one! Finally, we have… The Trixy Embellished Sandals! These sandals were the first pair of shoes I got from Stitch Fix, and I absolutely loved them. I liked how they fit with all of the outfits, so that was amazing, and I liked the gemstone on each sandal. So, that was what I thought.

Get your Stitch Fix Kids Box!

A big thanks to Princess P for that update. I thought you guys would like to know what the KID thought of the clothes. Frankly, both of us were pretty impressed and liked the options.

Honestly, I have a hard time with my little girl growing up — so it was nice to have someone else pick out some clothes that are a bit more grown-up. I was really happy with the result.

Total Stitch Fix Kids Box Price $178

Total Box Price with Discount $133.50

Which, for 10 items seems pretty great, averaging at about $13/item (with quite a variety).

I was really happy with it.

While we tend to get most of our clothes through Thrift Stores, this is a very fun way to get new items. I think we plan to try it as we get into winter!

Stitch Fix Kids Unboxing 2018

Here are her initial impressions to what she got (and yes, I do have a head … #oops….)

A closer look at the outfits:

Red ruffled shirt dress: $18 ($13.50 with full-box discount)

Kind of plain, but she’s a fan

Patterned Leggings $10 ($7.50)

These are SO soft, and very different than what we’d buy normally, but SO fun and cute.  Let me stress HOW soft they are — big fans of these, a box favorite.

T-shirt dress $16 ($12)

Sort of plain, probably our least favorite thing in the box — kind of muted, although it’s very soft and could be dressed-up or down.  So, that’s nice.

Graphic T (all of the graphic T’s are $12 — $9 with the discount)

Great quality, I said she loves shimmer and they delivered with this one.

Pink Skinny Jeans $20 ($15)

These are great, super good fit and it has cinches on the waist to make it fit for her.

Polka Dot Sweatshirt $20 ($15)

This is Paige’s actual favorite of the whole box.  She loves the lightweight nature.  She LOVES to wear a sweatshirt in the mornings when it gets cooler and this one is super lightweight, perfect for AZ

Bermuda Shorts — 2 pack $16 (for both pair — $12 with the discount)

Total win with the long shorts.  At first I thought they were a bit tight, but they look great AND they fit on her super skinny waist. — here she is from the back side:

Graphic T ($12)

SO, SO cute — perfect for her.  She loves science and stem.  I love how they saw that she likes science and put this in the box, that makes it extra fun for her.  This is her 2nd favorite item in the box.

Shorts are the other pair in the 2 pack above for $16)

Cute grand canyon T-shirt $12

A big yes on this one from our Arizona girl.  It’s bright and colorful.  She likes this one a lot. A great daily look.

Skinny Pants

OMG guys — I NEED THESE, they are SO soft and stretch.  Main problem, they don’t fit her waist.  However since they’re just $20 it doesn’t make sense to send them back (as we get the 25% discount for keeping them) so, I think I’ll jus tput a tuck in the waist band.  I’m basically an expert at that at this point.

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 You can see all my Stitch Fix Kids Boxes on this Playlist:

Sitch Fix for Modest Girls

Stitch Fix has NOT done a great job with my own modesty standards, but I was super impressed with this box.  I think our plan is to keep all of it.  I will be VERY specific with any concerns I had with any of the items when I return it as I hope to get her another box when winter rolls around.

Tips to get a Stitch Fix Kids Box

Be VERY specific in your initial questionnaire.

I stated a 5-inch inseam on shorts.

I stated her entire shoulder needs to be covered.

I said that at no point show her abdomen.

I didn’t want shoes.

Also, I wanted clothing items on the lower end of the price range.

Making your style preferences REALLY clear is super important on that. Take the time to do that.

I wanted more shorts, but you get what you get with Stitch Fix, and I think the pants are lightweight enough that in a month or so they’ll be a great option.

Will I order Stitch Fix Kids again?

Yes, I think I will.

It was SO nice to not have to go to the store.

Remember you do NOT have to get a monthly box. I really enjoy getting her a box at the beginning of the school year, and then one as it starts to get cooler (for winter items).

And frankly, this is the only of it’s type that services this age of girl since Nordstrom Trunk Club closed.

The price point is right where we would buy “nicer” items at (we will probably fill in around this fix with items from Goodwill), so I am normally on the cheaper end of clothing.  This is a bit of a splurge, but I figure one fix in the summer and one in the winter and we’ll be good.

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