Having a web filter for your home wifi is really important. This post is going to tell how my teen had always gotten around them, and what we are doing now.
We have tried a lot of web filters around here. Up until this one — my son has always found a way around them.
He’s 16 and the internet is his everything.
Do I like it that way?
Nope, not at all.
Sometimes I wish we could shut the internet off and live in a log cabin.
But, then I remember I run a blog.
And my son is going to college in just over a year (!).
I had heard so many good things about The Circle. From several friends I saw that it would be the device that could make living in the 21st century a little easier.
And then they sent me one.
I was doubting at first. I have a smart kid who hates limits.
I was sure it wouldn’t work.
But by JOVE it does!
The circle runs through your router — so it protects all the wifi in the house!
Separates each child into their own account
And also separates each device.
I am able to pause or limit the internet to a person, or to a device
I am able to place limits on people or devices.
- Filtering by age (teen, toddler, adult)
- Filtering by type (social media, videos)
- Filter by sites/apps (Netflix, Facebook)
I can limit the amount of internet time used by the person or the device.
I can also move devices easily between people. We have a homework computer that I have set to strict filtering (but is able to do homework) — if the kids want to play games on it, I switch it to their profile and let it filter that way (also limiting the total time they spend on the internet).
I run all of it on my phone.
I can tell when new devices are added to the network (and can easily add them to one person’s profile)
I can also allow things like our TV, our phone or our printer have free reign on the internet. Easy peasy.
The one way my son has gotten around it is by getting on a neighboring internet, but that can only be accessed in a specific area of the house and he has promised he won’t do that.
I just want them safe, and I want them to make the majority of their own choices… but I like the safeguard of a great filtering device.
And The Circle seems to be the best.
Things I don’t love: Things continue to suck internet if you’re logged in. For instance, our downstairs computer used up its 2 hours at 2 am this morning, probably because someone left the browser open.
Same for the phone. When devices are getting notifications it will still take internet time from their limits.
So, each kid gets a bit extra time. I don’t hear any complaining about it (because then I’ll just take away my generous offer of the extra time).
The main thing I’d advise you about rolling out the circle is that it is the law. There’s no begging and asking for no, because what the circle says — goes. The end.
In fact, I’d be careful to not use the reward in the beginning. That way — there’s no way around it.
I did get the Circle free at an event I attended, but there was no requirement to write about it — I just think it can truly help your family!
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