Am I in labor quiz? You might ask yourself that so many times — all the contractions, plus what are you looking for to know you’re in labor? This post includes an “Am I In labor checklist” as well as an “am I in labor quiz” — it will help you recognize the signs & symptoms of labor.
As an L&D nurse, I have tons and tons of posts about how to know if you’re going into labor. I have to say it’s one of the MOST confusing things (even though it SEEMs like it should be so clear!). I hope this helps to clarify it all!
Table of contents
- Am I in labor? Checklist
- Am I in Labor Quiz
- What is the first sign of labor?
- How do you tell if you’re having contractions
- When should you go to the hospital?
- What is False Labor
- What are some Signs that Labor is Approaching
- What Do Early Labor Contractions Feel Like
- How to Go into Labor
- Are you afraid of delivery?
Am I in labor? Checklist
We’re going to go through all the things to look for — but here is a printable checklist to mentally (or physically) go through as you approach the delivery day.
When I envisioned labor it was always the stuff that was in the movies. Boom, your water breaks and then about 3 seconds later the baby is flying out. {movie magic}, a baby has appeared!. Congrats! In reality, it’s hard to know exactly what’s a contraction and what’s just one of the usual aches and pains of pregnancy.
Your uterus is a giant muscle and it is attached to parts of you. It stretches and aches. That doesn’t mean the baby is coming. It just means that parts of pregnancy can be pretty miserable.
BTW, if you’re wanting labor and pregnancy simplified in ways like this, do NOT miss this class. It’s amazing and can be done on your own schedule!
Am I in Labor Quiz
This one is going to quickly take you through some of the things to watch for.
I’d encourage you to then finish the post to find out more about each option….
There are just about 100 points possible — so, just like regular labor, there is a pretty large scale.
I also have a little crystal ball quiz that asks WHEN will I go into labor. And btw, if I could figure that out, I’d be much richer than I am now. No one knows but mother nature. 🙂
Am I in Labor Frequently Asked Questions:
What is the first sign of labor?
Normally, it’s back pain and cramping feelings — like you had when you were getting your period, and then it progresses from there.
It’s important to note that labor is a LOT of different signs & symptoms. Contractions are just one of them!
How do you tell if you’re having contractions
Your uterus will tighten. I find that it’s best to tell if your belly is tightening when you’re laying down (as when you stand-up your abdominal muscles might be tight). I have a whole post that tells what a contraction feels like.
You can also try out the BloomLife Monitor if you’re still not sure. 🙂
What week does labor usually start?
Well, week 40 is the average (many people go more than 40 weeks). You really don’t want to go into preterm labor…
What triggers labor?
Basically, the baby and your uterus deciding it’s done. It’s a complex mechanism of hormones, and more than I want to get into here.
We talk a bit about how to go into labor in this podcast episode on ways to go into labor with my friend and fellow RN Mandy.
When should you go to the hospital?
I talk a LOT about that in my prenatal class, but I’d also ask your doctor what he/she thinks. There are a few reasons (besides labor) to call your doctor or the hospital.
Does nesting mean labor is near?
I mean, if — by “near” you mean in the next few months. Then, yes. Nesting isn’t a sign of labor though.
BTW, if you’re wanting to next a bit more I love this course on home organization.
How can I avoid pooping in labor?
I have a whole post on pooping in labor — but natural labor makes it a lot easier (vs an induction)
Is tightening of the stomach a sign of labor?
Tightening of the UTERUS is a sign — because that is a contraction. I find it’s easier to tell that when you lay down.
However, your body will have Braxton Hicks contractions (sometimes known as false labor) now and then as your uterus is irritable or just a random contraction now and then — and that does NOT mean you’re going into labor.
You should ask your doctor how many contractions/are OK if you’re before 36 weeks.
What week do first-time moms go into labor?
The average is 40 weeks. It may be a BIT longer for first-time moms, on average — but it mostly matters what YOUR body wants to do, and an average can’t tell you that. 🙂
Why does my pregnant belly feel tight or hard?
That’s a contraction, which we’ve talked about.
However, contractions will often happen as you stand up or lay down — just you uterus’s way of saying hello. 🙂
One or two contractions definitely doesn’t mean labor.
Is my amniotic sac broken?
One of the TRUE signs of labor is your water breaking. Of course, that can be tricky to know too! (seriously, can’t SOME of this be easy?)
I know all too well the feeling of wondering if you either wet your pants if it’s just a lot of discharge (or pee) or the real deal.
What is False Labor
The horrible news is that false labor feels JUST like true labor contractions. Also, false labor can TURN into true labor. I have this awesome full post about false labor pains. How you can tell the difference, or how you can tell if it’s headed for the real deal.
What are some Signs that Labor is Approaching
Labor has some tell-tale signs that tend to appear somewhat together. If you see a few of them all at once, you might start to think it IS the real deal. Signs you’re going into labor include diarrhea, loss of mucus plug and more SUPER fun things. You’ll be sure to want to click to that post right? Labor isn’t always pretty, but I bet you’ll find that post SUPER helpful!
Tell me about Losing Your Mucus Plug/Brownish Discharge
A lot of people feel like losing your mucus plug means you’re going into labor. They’re wrong. 🙂
Cliff notes: Your mucus plug is just sitting your cervix protecting the baby the first couple of trimesters and then it will fall out. It isn’t much of a sign of anything on it’s own.
Pack Your Hospital Bags before going into labor
If you THINK you’re in labor — it’s a great time to pack your hospital bag. I have seen a lot of 3 piece luggage sets come into the labor room. I mostly feel bad that she’ll have to put all those useless items away once she gets home.
A small bag should do it. While we’re at it — I have a whole hospital checklist of ALL the things you should do before the baby comes!
Cliff notes version for the three most imporatant things:
How to Go into Labor
You might be reading this page wanting to know HOW to get that baby out! This post will show you how to go into labor. I should say that I am a HUGE fan of going to your full due date, and there a lot of perks to being overdue with your baby (I am well aware that one of the perks is NOT being comfortable — but it is worth it!) The less you do to prod that baby out, the better the outcome is likely to be!
I even have a podcast with my friend Mandy on it:
Are you afraid of delivery?
The one thing EVERY family brings into the labor room is a little (or a lot) of anxiety. Such a big day. So many pieces that need to fall into place. So many unknowns. I can tell you that your labor nurse is your life preserver. She wants to explain things and help you on this special journey. I have a whole post dedicated to JUST pregnancy fears. There’s a lot to take into your heart and hopefully, this puts your mind at ease a bit.
Hope can do a lot. But, I recommend taking a prenatal class. Options include your local hospital or a doula. BUT, most couples are finding online classes to be SO handy. I recommend this one this one. You can even save 10% with coupon code PC10.
What Can you do to stay safe during pregnancy?
As you head into the final stretch be SURE you’re doing your kick counts — checking for decreased fetal movement! It’s the best way you can know your baby is thriving inside of you!
Of course, labor isn’t the only reason you’d want to call your doctor. There are many other reasons you’d want to call your doctor.
Be SURE to sign up for my pregnancy newsletter that’s all about labor and the tips from behind the doors of the labor room. I’ll even follow you along with your pregnancy — whether you’re 4 weeks or 40, I’ve got the info you need
