What does a contraction feel like?

What does a contraction feel like? We’ll talk about what to feel for them. How to know if they are just Braxton Hicks, and how to time them.

Ok, so why do I know about contractions?

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What does a contraction feel like?

I spent MUCH of my first pregnancy wondering WHAT the big day would feel like?  What would contractions feel like?  What would labor feel like? All of those are very normal first-time mom questions!

What is a contraction?

A contraction is your uterus (which is basically, just a large muscle) tightening down on the baby. I really like how this video shows it:

I like to think of your cerivx as a tight sweater neck.  Where the uterus is just slowly pushing the baby’s head through it.  So, it starts really small and grows as the head pushes on it more and more (I explain a bit more about that in my vaginal exams post)

All of that is thanks to contractions.

When you hit ten centimeters (check out this post to learn more about vaginal exams), you’ll push in time with your contractions to give that baby it’s final shove out your vagina.

It’s all really a miracle.  Just sort of a painful one. 🙂

Ok, you’re obviously REALLY interested in contractions, and what your body is going to do in labor…

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What will I feel?

For me, contractions felt like a bad stomach ache or cramps with your period.  You have to realize that you might just feel “crappy” much of the day — similar to how you feel during a bad period.  That can be contractions (or, you just feel crappy).

Period cramps ARE contractions — they’re your uterus wringing out what was left of the lining that it built up since it’s not pregnant.

Often they start out as just “tight” or some mild discomfort, and continue to be more painful from there.

Contractions are “wave-like” (like the waves of the ocean) in that they come in, and go away, and come back, and go away….

Most women describe them this way:

• Dull pelvic pain that comes and goes
• Menstrual Cramps
• Stomach cramps (but a bit lower than you’d feel them with actual stomach cramps)
• They intensify (get more painful)

I have a whole post just on true labor contractions and how to differentiate them between false labor.

Of course, you likely haven’t had a period in quite a while.  So, while that is a bummer — just try to remember back….

For a lot of women, that can be somewhat confusing (don’t miss my post all about the signs of labor)

SO, I have a solution…

Where do you feel your contractions?

Because your uterus is a pretty big muscle — you can feel your contractions in a variety of places.  Areas women often feel them include:

• Lower abdomen
• Back (both lower and a bit higher)
• Hips

Contractions feel like the baby moving?

I get this question a lot.  Large amounts of fetal movement can trigger a contraction — so sometimes those happen together.

Contractions CAN feel like the baby is moving — they cause similar pangs and pains.  A lot of my patients, once I have them on the monitor — and tell them it’s a contraction, will say — “Oh, I just thought the baby was moving.”  So, that’s not unusual.

How do I know I’m contracting?

Your uterus will start to feel hard under your skin when you contract.  It can be hard to tell for sure — but if you lay down, and really try to relax, as well as pressing on your belly when you feel the contraction, as well as when you don’t — you might be able to feel it.

But, you’ll also know it from a lot of pain.

If you’re sure not sure I’d call your provider and talk it over with them.

Contractions on the monitor but I’m not feeling them

This actually isn’t unusual at all.  Contractions come in all shapes and sizes.  Sadly, you usually need to feel them in order for them to do any work for you, but a lot of women have no idea they’re contracting until I put them on the monitor.

Of course, not EVERY contraction brings on labor.  False labor (or practice contractions) can also be painful — they just don’t make your cervix open much.

Also, questions on what the heck a monitor is or shows? I talk ALL about that in here. 😉

What do Braxton Hicks Contractions Feel Like?

Here’s the crazy thing, Braxton Hicks contractions feel pretty similar. Yes, they are likely less intense or painful… but yeah. They all seem similar. So, that makes it hard.

So, contractions aren’t the only thing that comes when you’re in labor — my post “Am I In Labor” details a lot about all that.  Labor involves your whole body — it’s an amazing and tiring event!

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