True Labor contractions gives some some signs that labor has started.  You’ll find some symptoms along with it before labor begins.

True labor contractions have some definite igns of labor approaching. Of cousre, it’s different for everyone — and hopefully it’s after 37 weeks.

Sound familiar?

"Is that it? Is this the real thing? Is it go time?"

I know I felt that a lot during each of my pregnancies.

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again — TV and movies have NOT done us a favor in our impression of how labor starts and progresses.  Much like everything, labor in real life is a lot different than how it is on TV.

Of course, not EVERYONE feels labor in the same way.

But, these are some pretty good points for the majority of people.  Want to know more about labor — don’t miss my page Am I in Labor.

**You might wonder why I am an expert in this area — it just so happens I’ve been a labor nurse since 2001 — so after helping over a thousand pregnant women — I think “expert” fits!**

True Labor Contractions:

** These are not hard and fast rules, pay attention to your body, your doctor and your gut.  As always, never take the advice of something you read or hear, over the advice of your doctor. **

True labor contractions are only great when you’re after 37 weeks.  Prior to that early labor contractions can be problematic and you will want to call your doctor.

Are pretty close together

On your first, we’d like to see the contractions every 2-3 minutes, on subsequent babies you’d probably want to head to the hospital when they’re about every 5 minutes (only because labor progresses quicker). I once had a patient come in because she’d had two contractions.  I was like, “every two minutes?” She said, “no — just two — but they’re really hard!”  Ala casa, my friend (that means to home, in case you’re not bilingual like me).

Ala casa, my friend (that means to home, in case you’re not bilingual like me).

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Last about a minute

Do they have to last exactly a minute — no — but most PRODUCTIVE contractions last about a minute – meaning 45 to 90 seconds.  Short ones usually aren’t going anywhere big (Chapter three in my prenatal class gives all the info on how to exactly count contractions).

Wanting to time them, but not wanting to use your phone (I never did) something like this will work.

Radiate

True labor radiates.  It will usually involve your entire torso.  Like someone has wrapped a scarf of pain around your midsection.  Usually starting in the back and radiating towards the front (or it can go the opposite).  If it’s JUST in the back or on a certain area of your belly, it may well not be quite the real deal.

Of course, I discussed a lot of this on my Signs of Labor post — it won’t be JUST contractions.   Usually, there’s some other fun going on also, like diarrhea — so, click over there to learn more about the different signs of labor.

The big question in most people’s minds is

What constitutes true labor?

The answer is cervical change.  And usually about a centimeter/hour.  If you were to come to the hospital and be only 1-3 cm we’d probably have you walk for an hour and then re-check you.  If you haven’t moved a centimeter, it likely means you’re not in true labor and your time would be better spent at home.

Now, many women feel dejected after that.

But let me be the FIRST to tell you that this isn’t a bad thing:

1.  You’ve made sure baby is safe and sound inside (babies sometimes move less as you go into labor, so that can be disconcerting)
2. You might have NO idea what a contraction is and isn’t and when you’re on the monitor it can help show you that (or a Bloom onitor like I talked about above could help that)
3. You know you’re safe to labor at home for a bit.
4. By pushing things, and being stuck in the hospital longer, you are increasing your chance of a c-section (be sure to check out my post on natural labor that gives tips and tricks for that!)

Enjoy some natural labor at home!

Oh, and it you haven’t — be sure to find out what to put in your hospital bag!

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So, please don’t feel bad if we send you home from Labor and Delivery.  Here are a few things to do at home to wait for real labor to get to your uterus (and sometimes that takes a while).

1.  Take a shower.  Let that water run on your back and it will really help it feel better.  Some nurses recommend a bath — but a)  You don’t want the water too hot in a bath, you’ll cook your baby.  b) It’s tough to get in and out of the bath 9 months pregnant (depending on your type of tub) — so I always recommend a shower — but a bath can be nice too!
2. Get some housework done.  Do it now, honestly.  Distract yourself and be productive.  Win-win.
3. Use a warm pack where it hurts and try to get some rest.  Use a microwaveable heating pad just warmed up (not hot) for your back or hips to help you try to relax.
4. Eat.  I wouldn’t gorge myself on the giant burrito from your local Mexican restaurant, but I’d eat something.  Something you love.  Once you get to the hospital, often, your doctor won’t let you eat.
5. Sit on your yoga ball — this is my personal favorite (pick a larger one — like this).  I think that rotating your hips on a yoga ball can really help that baby descend.  Kind of like drilling it down to find the right position.
6. Move around.  Take a walk, dance, whatever speaks to you.  But moving around will help distract you as well as finding new positions for that baby to drop into the ol’ pelvis.
7. TV, Movies, Facebook, apps.  Seriously, laze around.  Binge watch.  Tell your family I told you to. 🙂

Of course, things besides labor can be a reason to head into the hospital — and I go through all of that in my free beginning prenatal class:

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Anyway, as I’ve said before — false labor pains often progress into true labor.  And the BEST thing you can do is stay REALLY well hydrated and wait for the labor fairy to call you number.  🙂

And this page — Am I in labor — has ALL of the awesome links for if you’re in the real deal, and more!

If you liked this post — check out all my delivery tips at the bottom (you can find all my pregnancy posts here).  Be sure to sign up for my pregnancy email list.  Whether you’re 4 weeks or 40, I can help hold your hand during this pregnancy and follow you along towards your due date!

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